Imisebenzi yoLondolozo lwabaNtombi beNtlalontle
Xa omnye usapho olusondeleyo lukhathalela okwethutyana abantwana abantwabileyo, lona uncedo lokunyamekela. Inika intsapho yokuqala yabantwana ithuba lokuphuka-umvuzo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukunakekelwa kwabantwana abancinci kuthiwa ngexesha elifutshane kuthiwa "elifutshane elifutshane" ukunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Xa Ukunyamekela Ngaphandle Kufuneka
Olu hlobo lononophelo loluntu luncedo ngakumbi xa abantwana abancinci babonisa iintlobo zokuziphatha ezibonwa kumakhaya amaninzi azalisayo: Zineemfuno ezizodwa zempilo, iimvakalelo okanye zokuziphatha.
Abazali abangabantwana bokuqala bangadinga ukuba babalekele ixesha elithile elifunekayo lokubuyisela, okanye mhlawumbi baneminye imbopheleleko ebasusa kude nekhaya ixesha elide. Abanye abazali banokubiza umnxeba okanye bayeke abantwana kunye noomkhulu babo ukuze banokubamba ubusuku bodwa. Le nto ayisoloko ikhethwa ngabazali abangabantwana, ngokukodwa kwabo baxhasa "abantwana abanzima".
Imithetho kaRhulumente
Imithetho emininzi ithi imfuneko yokuba ukuba abazali bekulindele ukuba bahambe ixesha elingaphezulu kweeyure ezimbalwa, umniki-nkonzo wokunyamekela umhlalaphansi kufuneka angenele ukuba awathathe. Ezinye iindawo zivumela iintsapho okanye abahlobo ukuba bakhonze indima. Amanye amashishini karhulumente afaka amalungiselelo okunyamekela ukunyamekela kwabazali kwiintontrakthi zabo nabazali njengenkuthazo yokunceda abantwana babe neemfuno ezizodwa, kunye nakumakhaya apho abantwana abaninzi bebekhuliswe khona. Uphononongo olwenziwe ngo-2001 lubhengeze ukulungelelaniswa ngokuthe ngqo phakathi kwengxabano engaphantsi kweentsapho kunye nokunyamekela ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana.
Ezinye iindawo-ngokucacileyo iVirginia-zinikezela ngononophelo ukunyamekela nje ukuba zikhuphe abazali kodwa zixhaphaze iintsapho kunye neentlobo zezilwanyana, ngokuxhomekeke kwimfuno zabo kunye nezingane zabo. Inkonzo ayidla ngokukhululeka kwezi meko kwaye iindleko ngokuqhelekileyo zininzi kunokuba zihlawule umntwana wobomi bendabuko. Kodwa ingaba ngumzuzwana kubazali abafuna kakhulu ikhefu ngesinye sezizathu kwaye bafuna ukwazi ukuba abantwana babo baya kukhathalelwa kakuhle kwiindawo zokuhlala ekhaya.
Ukubonelela ngeNtlalontle
Ukuba ucinga malunga nokukhuthaza kodwa ukhathazekile malunga nalo, ukubonelela ukunyamekela ukunyamekela kwabafundi ekuqaleni kunokuba yindlela yokuvavanya amanzi. Ukunyamekela okuqhelekileyo kwenzeka rhoqo ngeveki, kwaye ngokungaqhelekanga kuthatha iiveki ezimbini. Unokukhetha xa ufumaneka ukuba uthathe abantwana ukuze ishedyuli ibe yinto eguquguqukayo-kufike kuwe. Buza i-arhente yakho yasekuhlaleni ukuba ufuna ulwazi olungakumbi xa ucinga ukuba unomdla.
Uninzi lwee-arhente zorhulumente zibonisa ukuba abanalo aboneleli abanokwaneleyo abanakekeli bokunyamekela ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo. Ukunyamekela ukukhathalela kudinga ilayisenisi kunye neeklasi kwezinye iindawo, njengokuba ungumzali okhulayo "oqhelekileyo", kodwa uya kufunda ukuba zeziphi iimpawu zokuziphatha onokuzenza. Uya kufumana ingcamango yinto esebenza kakuhle ekhaya lakho ngaphambi kokuba uthathe ukubekwa kwexesha elide.
Kungaba lula ukunyamekela abantwana abaye banakekelwa ngunyameko ixesha elide kunabo bahlala kutshanje. Ikhefu lokufunda likhona kuwo wonke umntwana-yintoni enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe ezithile? Le miba isele ikhutshwe ngokukodwa xa umzali okhuselekileyo efuna ukunyamekela, ngoko ke izinto ezincinci zigcinwe ngababoneleli abanonophelo.