Abantwana Balwela Ukuzimela kwabo Xa Ubushushu Bufuna
Abantwana bavakalisa umnqweno wokuzimela kumabini amabini - kwiminyaka emancinci kunye nasekuqaleni kwexesha elivisayo, eyaziwa ngokuba yiminyaka emibini kunye nentsha. Funda ukuba ukuzimela kubonakala njani ngexesha le-tweens kunye nentsha, kwaye kutheni le nqanaba kuyisigaba esilungileyo sophuhliso kunokuba ixesha abazali bafanele bamoyike.
Abantwana abafunda ukuzimelela ngexesha elifanelekileyo ebomini banokuqhubeka bekhulile nabazivelisayo.
Ukuchaza Ukuzimela
Ngokulula, ukuzimela kuthetha ukuziphatha nokucinga ngaphandle kwabanye. Abantu abazimeleyo abalawulwa ngabanye abantu okanye kwimikhosi yangaphandle. Kunoko, bayazilawula, ukuba uthanda. Abantwana bahlakulela ukuzimela ngokuthe ngcembe kwinqanaba lokuphuhlisa.
Kwiminyaka encinane, baqala ukuhlakulela ukuzimela ngokuhlola imeko yabo kwaye baqala ukwenza izinto ngokwabo. Ukufunda ukusebenzisa i-potty, ukutya, ukuthetha, ukuhamba nokuhamba nazo zonke izakhono ezinceda abaneminyaka emibini ubudala ukuba bahlakulele ukuzimela. Kule minyaka, abantwana bayaziwa ukuba baxelele abazali babo, " Hayi! " Oku kubonakaliso olucacileyo lokuzimela.
Abanye abazali banokuba nzima ukubonela abantwana babo beshiya isantya. Kuba nzima ngabazali ukuba baphonsele amathemba kunye namaphupha abo kubantwana abancinci, abaye bathuthuka ngokwandisa abo bantu kunye nokulwa nokuzimela. Ubungakanani bomsindo abazali abafanele bajamelane nalo nqanaba aluncedo kwimicimbi.
Ukuzimela kwiTweens kunye nentsha
Omnye umzabalazo olandelayo wokuzimela uqhutyelwa ngethuba lonyaka kunye nentsha. Ngelo xesha, abantwana balwela ukuzimela kodwa ngokufanayo baziva bekhishwe babuyele ebuntwaneni ngenxa yeemfuno zabo kunye nemida yabazali kunye noluntu oluhlala kuyo.
Nangona abazali bebancinci banokuba nzima ukubukela abantwana babo babe ngabantwana abasisigxina, abazali beentsholongwane kunye ne-tweens kufuneka baqikelele ukuba i-adolescence ibonisa iqela lokugqibela lomntwana.
Xa ulutsha lukulwela ukuzimela, kuba kungekudala baya kuba ngabantu abadala ngezandla zabo kunokuba bazali babo.
I-Tweens kunye nentsha ingabonakalisa ukuzimela kwabo ngokubuza imibuzo abazali abayinike yona okanye bayiphule. Baya kuqala ukubonisa ukhetho oluqinileyo kwiingubo, umculo okanye mhlawumbi kwintlalo yoluntu okanye yezopolitiko. Baya kujonga phambili ukufumana ukuzimela okukhulu, njengokufumana imvume yemfundi ukuqhuba kwaye emva koko ilayisenisi yokuqhuba. Iirekhodi zevesi, ezifana ne-bar mitzvahs okanye izidaniso zesikolo nazo zibonisa ukuba umntwana ukhula.
Ukuzimela kwi-Adolescence esemva
Njengomntwana oseminyakeni yobudala, baya kujonga phambili ukuvota okanye ukusela ngokusemthethweni okanye ukudlala. Ngenkcubeko yesizwe yaseMerika, abantu abanakho ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kude kube ngethuba elithile ngexesha lokukhula kwabantu abadala (phakathi kweminyaka eyi-18 ne-25 ubudala). Ubudala bokuzimela ngokupheleleyo buyahlukahluka.
Omnye oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala unokuba ngumfundi oqeshwe kwiikholejini oqeshwayo osebenza ixesha elipheleleyo aze ahlawule iindleko zakhe. Omnye oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala akanakuze abe nolwalamano olunzulu, ahlale ekhaya nabazali bakhe kwaye baye kwiikholeji zasekuhlaleni.
Ngokufanelekileyo, abantu abaselula kufuneka babe nokuzimela ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, banike ukuzithemba ukuba banokuzinyamekela kwaye benze indlela yabo emhlabeni ngaphandle kokuncediswa kwabazali babo.
Abanye abantwana abakhulile kwiimeko ezinzima, njengendlela yokunyamekela abantwana okanye kwiintsapho ezihlwempuzekileyo, banokufuna ukuzimela ngexesha elidala.