Ngaba bekungeke kube kuhle ukuba ubuyele esikolweni kwaye ungokoqobo kwizakhono zomzali ? Uya kufumana incwadana yomyalelo kwaye uthi, "Nantsi indlela eyenziwe ngayo." kwaye uya kubeka sonke. Esi sikolo somlingo siya kukufundisa nendlela yokuphatha abantwana bakho xa ulondolozo lwemini okanye ootatomkhulu beka imithetho. Abazali basebenziseni basebenzisa idolophana ukukhulisa abantwana babo kwaye, ndoda, izinto zinzima.
Ngelishwa, akukho sikolo eso kodwa kukho intanethi. Izaliswe ngcebiso engumzali abanye abazali abafuna ukukudlula kuwe. Ixesha ochithayo nomntanakho lixabiseke. Ngoko ke kukho izakhono ezinesihlanu zokubeletha eziza kuqinisekisa ixesha elifanelekileyo lomgangatho kunye nezingane zakho.
Ukuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza oko okuthethwa ngabantwana bakho
Ngaba uye wakha uxakeke kangangokuba awuqondi ukuba abantwana bakho bathetha nawe? Musa ukukhathazeka, kwenzeka ntoni kumnandi wethu. Xa usuka ekhaya uchithe iziphazamiso kwaye oku kuthetha izinto eziphazamisayo. Emva kwalokho yenza kube yinto ephambili kwizinto abantwana bakho abakuthembayo, oko bayamoyikayo, kunye noko banokuziva bazixhalabile ngayo. Ungalokothi uyeke ukubabuza imibuzo kungakhathaliseki ukuba kaninzi kangakanani ukungahoywa. Xa ubonisa ukuba uyabakhathalela ubabonisa, thanda.
Ukuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza kuthetha ukugxila kwizinto ezithethwa ngaphandle kokucinga malunga nendlela oya kuphendula ngayo. Kujongene nokulinda ulwimi lomzimba kwaye uthabathe kwiingongoma.
Unokuphucula ikhono lakho lokuphulaphula xa uguqa, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuhla ukuya kumlinganiselo wokuphakama kwawo. Banike ingqalelo yenu ngokupheleleyo kwaye nilungelelanise amehlo. Xa baziva beva baya kuziva uthando.
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Yimfanelo yakho yomzali ukufundisa abantwana bakho umahluko phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga.
Akufuneki nje ukuba ufundise ezi zifundo kubantwana bakho omele ulandele le mithetho, kwakhona. Oku kuthetha ukuba ungeke uhlale ulungile kwaye uya kufuna ukuphelelwa. Kuya kuba namaxesha apho uya kuthi u-no kubantwana bakho, kwaye uthetha. Emva koko kuya kuba namanye amaxesha xa wenze iphutha kwaye uya kutshintsha ingqondo yakho. Khawucacise ukuba uthi, "Ndiphosakele." kwaye kutheni utshintshe ingqondo yakho. Sonke senza iimpazamo.
Kodwa xa isohlwayo sifana nolwaphulo-mthetho kufuneka unamathele kwizibhamu zakho. Imimiselo kufuneka iqhutyelwe emva kokuba yenziwe. Naliphi na imithetho ekhoyo endlwini yakho kufuneka uyilandele, ngaphandle kokuba unesizathu esivakalayo sokuba ungabandakanywa. Abantwana bayakwazi ukukhupha umzenzisi.
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Musa ukwenza nto phambi koonyana bakho ongazifuni ukuba benze. Ukuba ufumana ukubonakalisa ukuziphatha ongazifuni ukulingiswa ngumntwana wakho, ngoko kuyimpawu kufuneka utshintshe indlela osabela ngayo kwiimeko ezithile. Iimbongolo zibona iimbongolo zenza.
Izingane zakho zibukele uhamba usebenze yonke imihla. Kubalulekile ukuba bakubone ukulawula konke okusemandleni akho. Awuzami ukufundisa ukugqibelela, ubafundisa umsebenzi onzima, ukunyaniseka, kunye nento yonke, uthando.
Hlala Ulawulwa Ngeemvakalelo Zakho
Ukuba ulahlekelwa ukupholisa kwakho phambi kwezingane zakho banokuyikwesaba. Ingaba uphikisana nomqokeleli-ntlawulo kwi-fowuni okanye unesiqabane kunye neqabane lakho, ungabonakali ukuziphatha kakubi phambi koonyana bakho. Naliphi na ixesha xa ulahlekelwa ukulawula kwaye ukhala okanye uphikisane nomntu, ubonisa abantwana bakho nantso indlela abantu abasabela ngayo xa amaxesha anzima.
Kunoko, bonise ubuchule obuhle bokubeletha ngokubonisa indlela onokuzigcina upholile ngayo kwaye usombulule ingxaki esondeleyo ngendlela ezolile. Bakhombise ukuba yiyiphi ingqiqo engqondweni. Ukuba ulahlekelwa yipholile, qiniseka ukuba uxolise kwaye uthwale uxanduva lomsindo wakho.
Enye indlela yokwenza umgangatho wokuziphatha kakuhle.
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Uyabathanda abantwana bakho, kunjalo? Ngokuqinisekileyo, uthi "Ndiyakuthanda", kodwa ubabonisa njani? Sebenzisa ulwimi lothando ukubonisa ukuba uthanda kangakanani abantwana bakho. Bawabethe ngokubanga kwaye ukhonkxa rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukwamkela nomntwana kuya kwenza bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bathandwa. Yonke into oyidingayo luthando.
Amaxesha amaninzi abazali bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye nezingane zabo kodwa bahluleka ukuzibandakanya nabo. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abasebenzi basekhaya benze njalo kuba besoloko sinabantwana bethu nabantwana babantwana okanye nabasesikweni xa sisebenza emsebenzini.
Ukubonisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zokuba ngumzali ngokuqalisa imisebenzi ebenzayo, njengokudlala imidlalo yebhodi yakudala, ukuzonwabisa kwimisebenzi yangaphandle , okanye ukuthetha nje nabantwana bakho ukuba wenze ixesha elide uhlangene ngalo.