Ingaba umntwana wakho unesithuthwane, i- dyslexia , okanye ukhubazekileyo, kubalulekile ukuthetha ngawo. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ubuye ubuye incoko rhoqo.
Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, mhlawumbi unokuvelisa imibuzo emitsha okanye ukukhathazeka ngokukhubazeka kwabo. Indlela oya kuthetha ngayo le ngxoxo iya kuba nefuthe kakhulu kwindlela umntwana ovakalelwa ngayo ngaye kunye namandla akhe.
Qaphela ukukhubazeka kwabantwana bakho
Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali bayakuphepha ukuthetha ngokukhubazeka komntwana. Abesaba ukukhupha umxholo uya kwenza umntwana wabo azive kakubi okanye oko kuya kubangela umntwana ukuba acinge ukuba akaphumelele.
Kodwa ekugqibeleni, ukungahoywa kwesihloko ngaba abantwana bazincoma kakhulu. Umntwana ongaxelelwa ukuba u-autism akanakho ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ulwalamano lobuhlobo bakhe. Unokwenza izicamango ezingalunganga ngaye kwaye akhulume ukuba akwazi ukubonakala.
Ngokufanayo, umntwana ongaqapheli ukuba uye wafumanisa ukuba unesiphene sokufunda unokucinga ukuba uyisidenge. Kodwa ekufundeni ukuba ukulwa kwakhe kuvela ekukhubazekeni ekufundeni okubangela ukuba afunde okuthe kancinci kunokuba uninzi lwabahlobo bakhe lunokubangela ukuba azive ekhululekile, ngokunjalo qaphela ukukhubazeka komntwana wakho kwaye uzimisele ukuthetha naye ngomntwana wakho.
Xa ubonisa ukuba akusiyo imfihlelo, akanako ukuva iintloni okanye ukuhlazeka ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwakhe kwaye unokuziva ekhululekile esikhumbeni sakhe xa eyazi ukuba ulungile ukuthetha ngawo.
Gcina Ingxoxo Eqhubekayo Nomntwana Wakho
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zokukhubazeka-ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokwemvakalelo. Uhlobo lokukhubazeka umntwana wakho luza kuba nendima enkulu kwindlela ojongene ngayo nesifundo.
Isikhathi xa wena kunye nomntwana wakho ufunda ngokukhubazeka kwakhe kuya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo kwingxoxo yakho.
Ukuba ufunde ngokukhubazeka komntwana wakho ngosuku azalwa ngalo, uya kuba namava ahlukeneyo kubazali abafunda ngokukhubazeka kwengqondo xa umntwana eneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala.
Impendulo yakho ekukhubazekeni komntwana wakho iya kuba nefuthe ngendlela umbonwa ngayo umntwana ngokwabo, ngoko kubalulekile ukuthumela umyalezo ovuma imingeni ebantwini bakho abhekane nayo, ngelixa umxelela ukuba uyinkwenkwe enokukwazi ukunikela ngehlabathi.
Yiba Nento Eyinyani Kwiintetho Zakho
Ukubeka imvakalelo eninzi kwiintetho zakho kuya kuba nefuthe indlela umvakalelwa ngayo umntwana wakho. Ukubonakalisa ukudabuka ngenxa yokulinganiselwa kwakhe okanye ukukhathazeka ngekamva lakhe kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho abe nazo iimvakalelo.
Nika ulwazi ngoko mbandela wenene. Thetha malunga nesayensi emva kokukhubazeka komntwana wakho, okanye uvume ukuba ngelixa ezinye iingane zithatha izitebhisi, kufuneka zisebenzise i-elevator. Kodwa ungafaki uluvo oluninzi malunga nezo zinto.
I-Steer icace kwiintetho ezinde kunye neentetho ezikhuthazayo ezide. Umntwana wakho uya kufunda ngakumbi ngamakhono akhe kunye nekamva lakhe elisekelwe kwizinto ozenzayo, kunokuba uthini. Ukuba uyamphatha njengomntwana onamandla, uya kuba nokuthanda ukuzibona ngaloo ndlela.
Hlonipha kodwa Gcina ulwazi lwexesha elifanelekileyo
Xa umntwana wakho ebuza imibuzo malunga nesimo sakhe okanye ukugxekwa kwakhe, qiniseka. Qinisekisa ukuba ulwazi olwabelana ngalo lukho ngendlela enobuntana.
Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 obuza malunga nesimo sakhe somfuzo akayi kuqonda i-neuroscience emva kokukhubazeka kwakhe kunye nomntwana oneminyaka eyi-10 akadingeki ukuba azi malunga nayo yonke uphando olutshanje lwezokwelapha ngenxa yoko athabatha imithi ethile.
Nika umntwana wakho iimpendulo ezilula kwimibuto yakhe. Ukuba ufuna ulwazi olungaphezulu, uya kubuza imibuzo emininzi-okanye uya kubuza umbuzo ofanayo ngenye indlela.
Mema Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Acele Imibuzo
Imibuzo yengane yakho malunga nokukhubazeka kwakhe iya kutshintshwa ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Xa engena ebusheni okanye xa eqala ukucinga ngemisebenzi yokukhetha, uya kuba nemibuzo emitsha.
Kodwa, umntwana wakho akayi kukubuza loo mibuzo ukuba ucinga ukuba kuphazamisekile ukuba uphendule, kwaye uya kuphepha ukukhupha umxholo ukuba ucinga ukuba uya kunciphisa ixhala lakhe.
Yenza kucace ukuba ujabule ukuphendula imibuzo nayiphi na ixesha kwaye uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba angacela abanye abantu imibuzo-njengogqirha wakhe okanye amanye amalungu eqela lakhe lonyango. Nceda umntwana wakho abone abantu abadala abathembekileyo abaya kukulungele ukuphendula imibuzo yakhe.
Xoxa Ngoobani Onceda Umntwana Wakho
Kunokuba ugxile kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ngokukhubazeka komntwana wakho, khuluma ngabo bonke abantu abazama ukwenza uncedo olukhulu. Xoxa ngendlela ososayensi abaphanda ngayo imeko kunye noko bafuna ukukufumana.
Kwakhona, thetha malunga nendlela akhe oogqirha, ootitshala , ootitshala kunye nabaqeqeshi abatyalwa ngayo ekumncedeni ukuba afinyelele kunokwenzeka. Mkhumbuze ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi kwiqela lakhe ekuxhaseni imizamo yakhe.
Ncedisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuchonga Oko Utsho Kwabanye
Abanye abantwana esikolweni-mhlawumbi nabadala kuluntu-banokubuza imibuzo yengane yakho malunga nokukhubazeka kwakhe. Nangona umntwana wakho engabakhokhanga mntu naluphi na iinkcazo, ukumnceda ukuba akhe iskripthi ukuphendula imibuzo kungamnceda ukuba azive ekhululekile xa ekhetha ukuphendula.
Buza umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukuthini abanye abantu ukuba bazi. Umntwana onokuthi, "NdineTretret's Syndrome. Yingakho ndikhangela ngamanye amaxesha, "unokukwazi ukumisa umxhaphazi kwiindlela zakhe kwaye unokukwazi ukuphelisa ukuhleka kwamanye amahemuhemu atyhila ngaye.
Indima idlala iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphendula ngayo imibuzo okanye iimpendulo. Ukuba unzima ukufumana amagama, mnike iskripthi esilula. Ncedise ukuba asebenze nawe kunye nokuthetha malunga nokuba uyayisebenzela xa esebenzisa nabanye abantu.
Gxininisa Amandla Asemntwaneni Wakho
Musa ukuvumela zonke iingxoxo zakho zibe malunga nokukhubazeka komntwana wakho. Gcina ixesha elide ukuthetha ngamandla, kwakhona.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba ukukhubazeka okusemzimbeni akumele kumgcine ukuba aphumelele esikolweni kwaye ukukhubazeka kokufunda akuthethi ukuba akanako ukuphumelela kwizifundo. Ufuna ukufumana uncedo olongezelelweyo lokufikelela kwiinjongo.
Thetha malunga nazo zonke izinto azilungeleyo kwaye umkhumbuze zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye. Umntwana onokukwazi ukuqonda izakhono kunye neetalente kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba azive efanelekileyo kwaye eqinisekile.
Ukuchonga amaModeli aMpilo wakho Umntwana onokumxelisa
Bonke abantwana baziva bedimazekile baze baxakeke ngezinye izikhathi. Kodwa kubantwana abakhubazekileyo, loo mvakalelo ingaba yande. Ukuchonga imifanekiso enempilo enokukhubazeka okufanayo kunokunceda umntwana wakho azive ephefumlelwe.
Ingaba uyazi umntu omdala kuluntu onokukhubazeka okufanayo nomntwana wakho okanye kukho abadlali, abaculi, okanye abaphumeleleyo abasomashishini abanokukhubazeka okufanayo, bathethe ngabanye abantu abaqhubekayo.
Funa iNkxaso Yakho kunye Nomntwana Wakho
Ukuthetha nabanye abazali abayaqonda ukuba intsapho yakho iyakwenza njani kunokukunceda uzive ukhululekile kwiintetho ozenzayo nomntwana wakho. Cinga ukujoyina iqela leenkxaso-nokuba ngumntu-okanye kwi-intanethi-apho ungathetha nabo abanye abazali babantwana abanokukhubazeka okufanayo.
Funa iingcebiso kubaqeqeshi abasebenza nomntwana wakho. Ingcali yesidumbu somntwana wakho, ugqirha wezentetho, umphathiswa womzimba, okanye utitshala oyingcali ekhethekileyo unokukwazi ukunika ulwazi oluthe ngqo malunga nendlela yokuthetha nomntwana wakho ngokukhubazeka kwakhe.
Ukufumana inkxaso ngenkxaso kubantwana bakho kubalulekile. Ingaba iiveki ephakamileyo kwenkampu yehlobo okanye inkxaso yenyanga nganye yabantwana abanokukhubazeka okufanayo, umntwana wakho unokuqonda ukuba uyazi ezinye iifana ezihlangene namava. Ngoko uthetha nomntwana wakho ukuba unomdla ekuhlangabezaneni nabanye abantwana abaneziphene ezifanayo.
Ukuba unomdla, sebenzela ukuququzelela ukusebenzisana. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabanye abantwana abaye bafumana iimqobo ezifanayo kunokuba luncedo ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ukuba afinyelele okusemandleni akhe.
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