Iingcebiso zokukhulisa abantwana abanomusa, abanesihawu kunye nabangenasibindi
Akukho nto embi ngaphezu kokufumana umnxeba ovela kumfundisi okanye umlawuli obonisa ukuba umntwana wakho uxhaphaza abanye abantwana esikolweni . Nangona yonke imizamo yakho yomzali engcono, umntwana wakho uye wagqiba ekubeni ukulawula, ukwesabisa nokukhathaza abanye kumnceda ukuba athole oko akufunayo. Kungabonakala kunothusayo kwaye kungenakuqondakala ukuba umntwana omthandayo kwaye uyamhlonela uye wabangela ukuxhatshazwa kwabanye.
Kodwa inyaniso, ukuxhatshazwa kuza kuzo zonke iimo kunye nobukhulu.
Kukho zizinto ezikhohlakeleyo ezixhaphazelayo, iintsholongwane ezisuka kwiindawo ezingafanelekanga. Naliphi na umntwana unako ukuxhatshazwa ngabanye, kwanabo bantwana abangenayo ingozi . Kodwa, kukho ezinye izinto ongayenza ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho uphatha abanye ngenhlonipho nangomusa. Nazi iindlela ezisibhozo ongawuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba abe ngumxhaphazi.
Yenza umdla kubantwana bakho .
Oku kubonakala kulula, kodwa abazali abaninzi ababandakanyekanga ngobomi babo bomntwana. Kunoko, bachitha ixesha elide bekhokela nokulungisa kunokuba baphulaphule baze bazi abantwana babo. Enyanisweni, uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho izinto ezikhuselekileyo phakathi kwabazali ababelana ngemibono kunye nezingane zabo kunabantwana abaziva behlala bexhatshazwa yizingane zabo. Ngoko thabatha ixesha lokufumanisa ukuba ngubani oonyana bakho abahlukeneyo nabani ofuna ukuba nabo.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahloniphe abanye .
Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba bonke abantu bahluke kwaye wonke umntu kufuneka athathwe ngobubele.
Kwakhona, faka ulindeleke ngokucacileyo malunga nendlela yokuphatha abantu, ngakumbi abo bahluke ngendlela ethile. Qinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba nangona bengawuthandi umntu, oku akubaniki ilungelo lokuthetha. Wonke umntu ufanelwe ukuphathwa ngenceba.
Musa ukuyihoxisa ulwalamane lomntakwethu .
Nangona kuqhelekile ukuba abantakwabo baxabane baze bahlekisane, ukuziphatha okungapheliyo, okubhaliweyo kunye nezomzimba, akufanele kutyeshelwe.
Amaninzi amaninzi, abantwana ababandakanyeka noodadewabo ekhaya baya kuxhaphaza abanye esikolweni. Ngamanye amaxesha, umntakwabo ongeyena ulwabizo uyadlulisela ukuziphatha kwabanye abantwana esikolweni. Nangona ukuxhatshazwa kukukhawulelwe ekhaya, ukuxhatshazwa kubantwana kufuneka kulungiswe ngenxa yokuba kunemiphumo ebalulekileyo.
Yazi abahlobo bomntwana wakho .
Mema abangani bomntwana wakho kwindlu yakho okanye umema ukuba baye kwiindwendwe kunye nosapho lwakho. Nokuba unikezele kwi-carpool ngezikhathi ezithile. Uya kumangaliswa oko uza kufunda malunga nabantwana bakho, abahlobo babo kunye nesikolo esivela kwisihlalo sangaphambili sesithuthi sakho. Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho eba nobuhlobo kunye nentombazana enentsingiselo , qiniseka ukuba uthetha nomntwana wakho malunga nokuhlonipha nobubele kunye noko kungenjalo. Kodwa qaphela ngokumalunga nokulawula okungakumbi ukhetho lomntwana wakho kuba luya kubuyisa. Zama ukukhokela umntwana wakho kunokuba wenze izicelo. Okwangoku, gcina iliso ngenxa yokuziphatha okuthethileyo. Khumbula, abahlobo bakho abantwana bahlala benempembelelo enkulu ekuziphatheni kwabo kunye neengcinezelo zontanga yindlela enamandla kakhulu xa kuthethwa ukuxhatshazwa.
Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga nokuxhatshazwa .
Ukunxibelelana ngokubambisana kuyisisiseko sokuba ngumzali olungileyo kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekuthintela ukuxhatshazwa .
Khumbula, u-canoot ukhusela abantwana bakho kuyo yonke imiphumo enobungozi, kodwa ungabalungiselela iziganeko ezinzima ngokuthetha nabo ngokuxhatshazwa. Qiniseka ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba ubomi bugcwele ukungavumelani. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba bayazi njani ukujongana nale meko ngokuvelisa. Ukubetha, ukubiza amagama kunye nokugxeka akuyiyo impendulo.
Ukuba novelwano .
Abaninzi abaxhaphazayo abanalo uvelwano. Sebenza nabantwana bakho ukuba uqaphele indlela ukuziphatha kwabo kuthinta ngayo abanye. Qiniseka ukuba ubuze umntwana wakho ukuba uya kuziva njani kwimeko efanayo. Kwakhona, phawula xa ubona abanye abantu belimaza kwaye bekhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba anike uncedo okanye uncedo ngandlela-thile.
Enye indlela yokuhlakulela inceba kukunceda umntanakho kwinkqubo yomzwelo. Amaxesha amaninzi, ukuqonda indlela abanye abavakalelwa ngayo kuqala ngokukwazi ukuba uvakalelwa njani kuqala. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukubona iimvakalelo zakhe, uya kulungeleka ngakumbi ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye.
Yazi iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa .
Akubalulekanga kuphela ukuba ukwazi iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa ukukhusela umntwana wakho ekuxhatshazelweni kwabanye kodwa, kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yomntwana kunye nokhuseleko lwakho. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baxhaphaza abanye ngenxa yokuba baxhatshazwa. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi indlela yokumisa umjikelo wenzondo xa ufumana umntwana wakho kule meko.
Ukuphelisa ukuziphatha kakubi ngokukhawuleza .
Ukuba ufumana umntwana wakho ngumxhaphazi okanye umntwana wakho uyisisombululo , thatha amanyathelo okuphelisa ukuziphatha kwangoko. Qinisekisa ukuba uthatha inyathelo elikhawulezayo nemiphumo efanelekileyo. Kwaye ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwabikwa esikolweni, sebenzisana nabalawuli ukuba ugxininise nayiphi na isenzo soleko esikwamukelwa ngumntwana wakho. Njengoko kunzima, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakho bafumane iziphumo zokuziphatha kakubi. Ungazami ukuzikhusela okanye abayi kuze bafunde kumava.