Xa izikolo zigunyaza ukufakwa kwamagumbi okufundela abafundi, abazali kufuneka balwe
Abazali bamawele bajongene nemingeni emininzi. Ngamazinyane amabini, kukho ubusuku obuthongo, ubuninzi bee-diapers, kunye nokutya okujikelezayo. Kodwa njengamawele amancinci alungiselela ukuqala isikolo, abazali bangase bazibonele bejongene neengxaki ezinkulu: isikolo esibambelela ekuhlukaniseni abantwana babo kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo, kunye nabantwana abaphazamiseke ukuba abanako ukuhlangana kunye.
Yintoni abazali abayenzayo? Ngenye yezona zinto zijamelene nazo nabazali bamawele .
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba amawele ahlangene kunye eklasini enye okanye kungekhona umcimbi okhohlakeleyo. Impendulo eyahlukileyo kuzo zonke iisethi zeewele, kwaye isigqibo esifanele sitshintshe unyaka unyaka. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuncoma ukugcina amawele kunye kunye nabaninzi abathanda amaqela ahlukeneyo ngamawele . Kodwa ngelishwa, kwiimeko ezininzi, iintsapho zamawele azilungelo lokugqiba. Kunoko, isikolo siyabakhetha. Kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, isigqibo sesikolo ukuhlukanisa amawele ngokusekelwe kwimibono engafanelekanga, ulwazi oluchanekileyo, okanye ngokulula okulula.
Kwamanye amazwe, umthetho ukhusela amalungelo eentsapho zamawele ukuba abe negalelo kwiimeko zemfundo yabantwana. Kodwa ngaba abazali bafanele benzani xa bechasene neemfuno zabo? Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso.
Indlela yokulwa neTwin Separation School
Yintoni ongayenza ukuba awuvumelani nomgaqo wesikolo sakho malunga nokufakwa kwamakamelo okufundela?
- Okokuqala, fu manisa ukuba umthetho ungasecaleni lakho. Mhlawumbi urhulumente wakho sele usemisele uMthetho weeMvini. Hlola eli nqaku ngolwazi olungakumbi, okanye uvakatye kwiWebhsayithi yoMthetho weeTayini ukuze uhlaziywe.
- Cela ukuba ubone nayiphi na ipolisi ekhoyo ngokubhaliweyo. Abambalwa abaphathi besikolo banesikhokelo esibhaliweyo kwirekhodi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, nje "yindlela eyenziwe ngayo."
- Yenza uphando olwakho ukuxhasa imeko yakho. Abanye abaphathi besikolo abaqapheli nje ngomzimba wobungqina obunxulumene nalo mbandela kwaye bazimisele ukuphonononga kwakhona isikhundla sabo ngokusekelwe kuphando lwakutshanje. Qalisa izixhobo ezivela kwiiManyeni zaseMelika (ezibizwa ngokuba yiNational Organisation of Mothers of Twins Clubs), iiwebhusayithi ezifana nale, kunye namanqaku avela kwimpapasho efana ne-Twins Magazine. Izibonelelo eziqhubekayo zidweliswe ngezantsi. Ukuba wenza ityala elivakalayo, inqununu yesikolo sakho sinokubuyela phantsi.
- Funa iimbono ezivela kubaqeqeshi abazi abantwana bakho bhetele. Buza udokotela wakho wezilwanyana ngombono wezokwelapha, kwaye uthethe nabanonophelo abasebenzisana neeplani zakho kwinkathalo yesikhokelo, esikolweni okanye kwindawo yokudlala. Cela uncedo lwabafundisi bakho ootitshala bakho, ukuba lukhona. Buza ukuba babelane ngegalelo labo malunga nobuntu bomntu kunye neemfuno zabo zemfundo, kunye nokuchazela ukuguqulwa kobudlelwane babo bamawele. Buza ukuba babhale ileta ukuxhasa lakho ityala.
- Gcina umzila wephepha okanye iphephandaba. Ukurekhoda ngeenkcukacha zonke iziganeko okanye izikhokelo ezixhasa imeko yakho. Umzekelo, ukuba amawele akho agxeka okanye aphazamiseke xa ehlukanisiwe, okanye ukuba umntu uhlala esetyenziselwa ukuthetha.
- Faka ifayili esemthethweni kunye nenqununu yesikolo okanye umlawuli. Ileta yakho kufuneka ifake iinqununu eziliqela: isitatimenti sakho somntu, impembelelo yengqondo yokuhlukana kwamabini, imiba engokomthetho ehlangothini lwakho (njengemithetho ecetywayo kwimeko yakho kunye nomthetho kwamanye amazwe), ukusebenza kwezemfundo, kunye neninzi legalelo kwiinjongo, kwimithombo engaphandle, njengemizekelo engentla. Injongo yakho kukuzisa malunga nophando kunye nomthetho oxhasa ukugcina amawele ndawonye xa kucelwa ngabazali, kwaye kutheni uvakalelwa kukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana bakho. Qinisekisa ukuba ba (okanye baya kuba) baphumelele xa behlangene, kwaye benze ityala ukuba kuya kuba yingozi xa behlukana. Kubandakanya izikhombisi zombini ukuxinzezeleka kwengqondo kunye nefuthe elilandelayo ekusebenzeni kwezemfundo.
- Ukuba inqununu yakho ayiyi kuguquka, hamba ngqo kwibhodi yesikolo kunye nokuphathwa kwesikolo (umongameli). Thumela iileta (okanye i-imeyile), kunye nawo onke amaxwebhu axhasayo, kwaye ulandele ngeefowuni uze ufumane impendulo.
- Ekugqibeleni, ungesabi ukwenza amaza. Abazali abaninzi baninzi baxhalabisa ngabaphathi besikolo kunye neempembelelo xa becela umngeni wabo igunya. Ngabantwana bakho abafanelekileyo, kwaye kufuneka wenze okulungileyo kubo.
- Okanye ikhosi, gcina iteksi yobugcisa kuyo yonke intsebenziswano ukuze ungabathukutheli amagosa esikolweni (ngubani oza kuhlangabezana nayo iminyaka emininzi xa amawele akho esikolweni). kunomchasana okanye umzali onzima, kwaye ugcizelela ukuba nonke unenjongo efanayo - isikolo siphumelele kubantwana bakho.
Kubalulekile ukuba wenze uphando lwakho ukuze ulungele kakuhle ukukhusela ibango lakho ukuba inamaqela akho amawele angcono kakhulu agcinwe kunye. Nazi ezinye iimithombo zophando ukuxhasa ityala lakho:
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