Iingcebiso malunga nokuNcwina nokuTshintshela kwiikhopu
Umhlobo osandul 'uxelele ukuba ndifuna ukufumana iinyanga ezili-11 ubudala ebhotile. Udokotela wezingane wayemxelele ukuba akafanele asebenzise oko. Ndandiyothuka. Emva koko, i-American Academy ye-Pediatrics (AAP) ayiyonto leyo, kunokuba ikhuthaze ukuba abazali banamathele abantwana babo kwibhotile ngokupheleleyo kwiinyanga ezili-15 ukuya kwezi-18 ubudala.
Kwaye, ukunyaniseka, akufanelekile ukubeka ixesha elide eliqhelekileyo lexesha eliqhelekileyo njengento yokucoca.
Oko akutshoyo akukho sizathu esihle sokuba iibhotile zokupasa kwi-sibini kunyaka wakho wesibini. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukusebenzisa ixesha elide lebhotile kungabangela ukubola kwezinyo . Ukusebenzisa iibhotile kungakhokelela abantwana ukuba basele ubisi obuninzi , oku kunokukhokelela kwisisindo esiphezulu okanye ukungondleki ngendlela efanelekileyo njengoko ubisi bubeka enye indawo ekudleni komntwana. Ngoko ukunceda umntwana wakho afike kwindawo ekulungele ukuba athi "yiyeke, ibhotile" ibalulekile. Kodwa uyayenza njani loo nto?
Ukuqala nini
Nangona abazali abaninzi bengacingi ukuba banikele indebe de emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala, inyaniso kukuba ungayifaka inkomfa (okanye ngaphandle kwesiqhekeza) kwisiqingatha sesibini sonyaka wokuqala. Uphawu olubaluleke kakhulu lokulungela luyakwazi ukuhlala oluchanekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho enezakhono ezinamandla ezinamandla kwaye sele sele ephethe ibhotile eyedwa, unokufumana ithuba lokuba athathe indebe kwangoko, kodwa ezo zakhono akudingekile ukuba ziqale.
Njengoko uqala ukuzisa indebe, kuhle ukuba ubambe umntwana wakho kwaye ubambelele indebe emlonyeni wakhe njengoko uhambisa kancane i-sips encinane.
Indlela yokuHlahla iziTyhuphu
Kukho iindlela ezimbini eziqhelekileyo zokutshintshwa komntwana kwibhotile kwikombe. Yiyiphi indlela oyithathayo incike ekuncedeni komntwana wakho kwibhotile kwaye ingaba ungeva ukuba ulungele ukuya kwi-turkey ebanda.
Nge-Let-Go-Slow Kid
- Fundisa indebe njengomthombo wokuncedisa utywala iintsuku eziliqela. Nika amanzi amancinci kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba adlale ngekomityi engenanto njengoko ejwayele.
- Emva koko, buyisela ibhotile kwikombe encinci enye ngosuku malunga neveki kwaye uyakha ngokukhawuleza ukuba utshintshe zonke iziyobisi zentsuku kunye neenkomfa ze-sippy.
- Susa amabhotile kwimbono ukuze umntwana wakho angayikucela endaweni yendebe. Ukuba umntwana wakho usekhulile, ungazama ukumchazela ukuba lixesha lokuba uthengele iibhotile. Nceda uncede ukuwafaka kwaye u "thumele". Oku kunokunceda ukuba alungiselele utshintsho.
- Ubusuku bungabomngeni kumntwana oqhotyoshelwe kwibhotile. Isitshixo ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ukulahla ibhotile yokulala ngexesha lokulala. Xa usenza isigqibo sokuzama ukutshintsha ixesha lokulala ngexesha lokulala ngendebe, ungabuyeli. Nangona uyayinqaba indebe kwaye uyakhala ngenxa yebhotile, kufuneka uphephe ukunika ibhotile okanye iya kumdibanisa kwaye yenze kube nzima ukuba amnike ixesha elide.
- Ukudala ixesha elitsha lokulala kunye neembali, i-cuddles eyongezelelweyo, kunye ne-lovey entsha inokudala indawo efudumeleyo, eyathuthuzelayo eyenza ukuguquka kube lula kumntwana wakho.
Ngokuba Ndiyi-Ready-I-What's-Next Kid
Kwiinyanga ezili-12, abaninzi abaselula abayi kuba neengxaki zokuyeka iibhotile.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthatha indebe ekuqaleni, cinga ukuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa. Yethula inkompo evulekileyo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ugcine iikomityi ze-sippy kumaxesha xa ufuna ukukhusela i-mess messes (njengemoto).
- Sebenzisa indebe yazo zonke izixhobo zamanzi, okubandakanya ubisi, ngokukhawuleza.
Into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqwalasele kukuba awufuni nje ukufaka indawo yebhotile kunye nayiphi na imiphumo emibi yebhotile enokuthi iyenze ikomityi ye-sippy nayo yonke imikhwa emibi. Uphando lubonisa ukuba abancinci abasebenzisa iikomityi ze-sippy (okanye iibhotile zaloo nto) bangasengozini yokulimala ngenxa yokuwa kwelo xesha xa abantwana behamba okanye bahamba ngebhotile okanye indebe emlonyeni wabo.
Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba unika umntwana wakho isiselo xa enxaniwe ngokwenene okanye esidliwayo kwaye uyazi ukuba abancinci bebisi badinga kangakanani xa bekhula. Ukuvumela umncinci ukubambelela kwikomiti ye-sippy yonke imihla ingaba yingozi njengokuba kusetyenziswe ixesha elide kwiibhotile, ezikhokelela ekuphuzeni ukuphuza okwenza ukuba angenakudla ukutya okunomsoco kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba akhuphe ukubola kwezinyo.