Yenza Iinguqulelo Zokwenza Okulula Kwizingane Zakho

I-Custody Swaps Kuba yinto yokulala yabantwana bakho? Zama Ezi ngcebiso

Ukuguqulwa kwezinto eziphathekayo kunokuba kunzima kuwe njengokuba kubantwana. Sebenzisa la macebiso ukuze wenze ugcino lwakho olulandelayo litshintshe elifanelekileyo kubo bonke abachaphazelekayo.

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Xoxa nge-Ex Ex Front phambi kwesiCwangciso

Unxibelelwano olungileyo kunye ne-ex yakho kubalulekile. Kufuneka uphuhlise isicwangciso esiqilileyo malunga nendlela oza kuthatha ngayo utshintsho lokugcina. Izinto ofuna ukuzilungisa ngaphambi kokuba utshintshwe okulandelayo zibandakanya: ngubani othabathe abantwana, apho, kunye naluphi na ixesha? Musa ukulibala izinto ezincinci ezinokuthi zibe zinkulu kubantwana bakho, njengokungathi i-ex yakho ihlala ngaphandle okanye ingena ngexesha lokuhla.

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Nika Abantwana Bakho Isisombululo esiphezulu

Oku akusiyo nje ingcebiso yokufumana abantwana bakho bekulungele ubusuku obuzayo. Kwakhona kufuneka babe nolwazi phambi kokuba lindelwe ntoni ngexesha lokuhla. Kucacile ngakumbi ukuba unakho, bhetele. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba lakho elide lilahla abantwana kwaye ugqibe ngokubambisana ukuba akayi kungena ngaphakathi, nto yinto abantwana bakho kufuneka bazi ngaphambili. Kwaye akufuneki kube "yinto enkulu." Kungaba lula ngathi, "Ubaba uya kukuhlahla apha ekhaya ngeCawa, kodwa uya kungena."

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Banike I zigqibo

Ukukhethwa sisixhobo sokuxhobisa abantwana, ngakumbi xa beqala ukufunda ukujamelana nezinguqu abangafuni okanye bacele. Ngoko xa ulungiselela abantwana bakho kwisigqibo esilandelayo sokugcina, zama ukubanika ukhetho. Ngokomzekelo, imuphi umdlalo wevidiyo ukuzisa okanye yiyiphi iTekhthi ukupakisha. Gwema ukwenza ukuba bakhethe phakathi koqhagamshelwano ezimbini, nangona kunjalo. Umzekelo, awufuni ukuxelela wakho uneminyaka emibini ubudala ukuba akhethe phakathi kwebhedi yakhe ethandekayo kunye neengubo zakhe.

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Xoxa malunga Nento abajonge phambili

Nangona ungeke ujonge phambili ukuba ungabikho abantwana bakho iintsuku ezimbalwa, kuyimvelo ukuba babe nolonwabo malunga nokuguquka okuzayo. Zama ukuzifaka ezinqabeni zabo uze ucinge ukuba bafuna ntoni. Emva koko uthetha nabo ngeendlela zokuzilungiselela ukuguquka kwesigcine. Oku kuya kunceda ukunciphisa naluphi na uxhalaba abanalo malunga nokuba ngaba uya kulungile xa behamba nabo.

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Qinisekisa ukuba Ubuncwane Babo Baluleke Kakhulu Busiwe

Ziziphi izinto abantwana bakho abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle? Kungenzeka kube yilwanyana elithandayo, okanye mhlawumbi kube yintlanzi yokutya yasekuseni. Khawucinge kwakhona, nokuba iingubo kunye nemigodi kufuneka ifakwe kwiluhlu lwabo lokupakisha. Nantoni na enceda abantwana bakho bazihlalise xa bexhalabile, okanye banceda balale, kufuneka baqwalaselwe. Nangona akusiyo umsebenzi wakho ukwenza ubomi bakho bude lula ngexesha lokutyelela ngokubanzi, uqinisekise ukuba ubuncwane bakho obuncwaneni bakho bupakishwe buya kwenza ixesha lihambe ngokukhawuleza.

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Izinketho zoNxibelelwano

Ezinye iintsapho zigqiba ukuba kungcono ukuba ungacwangcisi iifowuni okanye uxoxe ngevidiyo ngexesha eliphezulu. Ukuba uthe wagqiba kunye ukuba abaphakathi koonxibelelwano benza abantwana bakho banxungupheke kwaye bakhulelwe ekhaya, landela umthambo wakho. Kodwa ukuba uthe wagqiba ekubeni uvumele iifowuni okanye i-video ingxoxo, qiniseka ukuxoxa ngeerameters phambili. Umzekelo, ngaba babiza kuphela ngexesha lokulala, okanye banokubiza nayiphi na ixesha? Ukuba nesicwangciso kwangaphambili kuya kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke ziyafumaneka ngexesha elicetywayo.

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YiNkonzo yesiTyala

Le nto inokuba ibinzana elikhethekileyo oyisebenzisayo rhoqo okanye ukulandelelana kweentsimbi kunye nokumanga. Ngokomzekelo, unokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda kwenyanga kwaye ubuyele" rhoqo, okanye "Khangela emva koko, kiddo!" Olu hlobo lwenkqubo oluqhelekileyo lunokuthuthuzela abantwana bakho, kwaye kuwe!

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Ngaphandle kweNkcazo yokuCoca kwaye ubeke iiNkxwaleko zakho

Ekugqibeleni, qinisekisa ukuba awuyi kunika uxhalabo lwakho lokuxhatshazwa ngexesha lokuguqulwa kwamagunya. Le nto into eyenziwa ngabantwana bakho bayakuyithatha kalula, kwaye iya kwenza ukuba kube nzima kubo. Nangona kufuneka 'uyenze inkohliso' ukuba wenze njalo, 'yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ufumane uxolo kunye nokuzola xa uthumela abantwana bakho ukuba bachithe ixesha kunye neyokuqala. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukuguqulwa kwamagcino kuya kuqala ukuvakalelwa ngokwendalo, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kufumana ukuba 'uyayifaka' loo ndlela yokuzola ngokuncinci.