Ukulala ngesondo akuyiyo into eyahlukileyo kwizesondo eziqhelekileyo xa uthetha ngezinto ezisiseko. Kodwa kwi-mechanics yesondo nokukhulelwa, kukho ukungafani, nangona kunjalo. Ukubeka ingqalelo kule ntlukwano kuthetha ukuba umehluko phakathi kwamava amahle kuwe kunye nomlingane wakho kwaye unokuthi ungekho.
Utshintsho lomzimba
Ziziphi iinguqu ezona zibonakalayo xa ukhulelwa ngumzimba okhulelweyo?
Ngethuba lekota yokuqala, isibeletho siya kuqala ukukhula kodwa siya kufihlakeleka kakuhle. Oku kuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ubone utshintsho olusisigxina kwisisu esisenziwa ngabantu abaninzi abanokuxhamla nokukhulelwa. Oku akuthethi ukuba ayitshintsho eyokuchaphazela ubomi bakho bobulili.
Enye yemibandela enkulu yenguqu echaphazela isondo kwi-trimester yokuqala iyatshintsha kwiibele. Abasetyhini abaninzi baya kufumana ukuba amabele abo aqale ukukhula, kwaye bazive bekhudlwana kunokuba bekhulelwe. Ngoxa le nto inokuba yinto enqwenelekayo kumlingane wayo, ingahle ibe nexhala elikhulu kwiibele . Qiniseka ukuba uthethe neqabane lakho malunga nendlela amabele abo abavakalelwa ngayo xa unomntu okhulelwe. Ukuba ungumntu okhulelwe, qi ni sekise ukuthetha nomlingane wakho kwaye ubatshele ukuba yintoni engavumelekanga. Olu nxibelelwano luya kunceda kakhulu ekuhambeni ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Njengoko uhamba kwisiqingatha sesibini sokukhulelwa isibeleko siqala ukukhula. Ekuqaleni, olu tshintsho alunakuchaphazela ubomi bobulili. Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho unokufumana ukuba likhangele. Oku kuqhelekileyo. Xa isisu sakho sithatha isikhulu kakhulu kwaye ukhulelwe unokufuna ukujonga ezinye izikhundla oye wazenza phambi kokukhulelwa.
Eyona nto, ufuna ukuphepha ukubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kwisisu. Ngethuba umntwana usupheliswe ngokufanelekileyo kwi-amniotic fluid, kusenokuba nzima kumama.
Imizimba yokukhulelwa
Imiqondiso yokukhulelwa ingabi yinto enokuyicinga njengokuba uthintela ubomi bakho bobulili ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Kodwa amaqabane omabini aya kufumanisa ukuba iimpawu zokukhulelwa zingadlala inxalenye enkulu kwixesha lamava ezesondo. Ukuba ngaba unina-ongekho uvakalelwa kakuhle oku kuya kubakho ukubeka umdaka kubomi bakho bobulili. Nangona kunjalo, ezininzi iimpawu ziphakathi.
Kukhona uphawu lokukhulelwa olunokuba luncedo kakhulu kumfazi okhulelwe kunye nobomi bakhe bobulili. Yaye oko kuya kukwandiswa amathuba okwenzelwa i-orgasm kunye / okanye ibe yi-multi-orgasmic ngenxa yokunyuka kwegazi kwiindawo ze-clitoris kunye nesisu. Oku kuthetha ukuba unesondo esincinane, kodwa unokuba nesondo esingcono.
Ukunyuka kwabantwana
Ngexesha eliphambili, mhlawumbi wena okanye iqabane lakho uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana ushukume ngaphandle. Kuqhelekile ukuba umama azive ukuba umntwana ushukunywe ngaphambi kweiveki ezingama-30 ngoko kuba iqabane. Emva kweveki ezingama-30 zombini amalungu angabona ukuba umntwana uhamba ngaphandle ngaphandle kwesisu. Oku kunokwenzeka okanye akuyi kutshintsha indlela ozivakalelwa ngayo ngokuthanda.
Le nto wena kunye neqabane lakho kuya kufuneka ukuba nixoxe ngazo. Kuqhelekile ukuba uqaphele intshukumo eyongezelelweyo ye-fetal emva kwe-orgasm. Oku akuthathwa njengento embi. Ukuba unomdla uhlale ucela umbelethi wakho okanye ugqirha ukuba ucebise.
Ekugqibeleni, ubomi bakho bobulili nje kukuba, impilo yakho yesondo. Ungavumeli ukuba ngaphandle kokulindela utshintshe indlela wena kunye nomlingane wakho uziva ngayo ngomnye ngesini. Unokungena kwi-ups kunye ne-down with your libido okanye amaqabane akho libido kwaye ulungile.