Incwadi ukukunceda ngokusebenzisa ikholeji kunye nenkqubo yokungena
Ukufaka isicelo kwiikholeji kuyinkqubo ende kwaye inzima. Ukususela kwi- SAT yokuqala ngokusebenzisa isaziso sokugqibela sokwamkelwa, abazali kunye nabafundi baxhamla ngolwazi, incoko, ukhuphiswano, izimvo kunye nezinto ezininzi ezenza ikholeji-ikholeji elungileyo - kubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu kwaye unzima kakhulu.
Ngethuba abafundi bethu abaphakamileyo befunda , besenza iimvavanyo, badlala imidlalo yabo yokuzikhethela ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye bazama ukungavumeli inkqubo yekholeji ingaphazamise amava okuba ngabafundi abasesikolweni esiphakamileyo, abazali bazama ukuhamba indlela eya kwikholeji ngaphandle kweyantlukwano enkulu - kunye nomntwana wabo, kunye neqabane labo, kunye nethemba zabo kunye neengcamango zento umntwana wabo abakhethayo nokwenza ngexesha lekholeji.
Akukho mzali ohamba nge-labyrinth yekholeji engayi kuzuza kwincwadi ethi Grown and Flown - ukususela kwi-11 yeBanga le-Stress ukuya kwiNgqubela yeKholeji . Ebhalwa nguLisa Heffernan noMary Dell Harrington, abadali beblogi eyaziwayo kunye newebhusayithi ephakamileyo kunye ne-Flown, kunye neefoto zikaTeresa Kilman, le ncwadi inikezela yonke into umzali ayenayo ukuyenza ukususela kumnyaka omncinane ukuba adle ukuhamba-ngosuku .
Indlela kunye neenkcukacha zolwazi ezifakwe kule ncwadi ebhaliweyo kwaye yincinci ibandakanya ukuqikelela ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ikholeji, uncedise umntwana wakho ngamaxesha amnandi amaxesha eminyaka engama-junior, iingcebiso kubafundi abatsha bekholeji bevela kwiprofesa kwikholeji kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokugqiba kholeji kwiminyaka emine.
Esinye seziphakamiso kwisicatshulwa 12 Izindlela eziqinisekisiweyo zokunceda umntwana wakho nge-Junior Year:
8. Funda ukushicilelwa okufanelekileyo Abazali kufuneka babandakanyeke kwinkqubo yesicelo. Le yinkqubo enzima eneenkcazo ezininzi, iingcebiso, izongezelelo kunye nokunye. Enye yezingane zam ziphantse ziphoswe ngumhla wokugqibela wesicelo ngenxa yokuba ukufakelwa kobugcisa kufuneka kuhanjiswe ngo-Oktobha. Omnye unyana wayengafuni ukufumana iingcebiso kumqeshi ngenxa yokuba waphoswa i-asterisk encinci echaza imeko phantsi kweencwadi ezongezelelweyo. Baye bafunda iimviwo, benza imidlalo kunye nemisebenzi ... Ndifunda ukushicilelwa okulungileyo.
Iingcebiso ezisebenzayo ezivela kumama oye wahlala khona, Okhulile kunye noTyflown - Ukususela kwi-11 Yokunyamezela ukuGxininiswa ukuya kwiKholeji Impumelelo
UMichelle Miller-Adams, umgcini weemvakalo kwiwebhsayithi eyiGrown and Flown, nguprofesa onxulumene nesayensi yezopolitiko kwiYunivesithi yaseGrand Valley State e-Allendale, eMichigan. Ukwabelana ngeengcebiso zakhe ngeengcali malunga nomnyaka omtsha, kuquka le ngcaciso ebalulekileyo:
3. Bandakanya Ukuza eklasini elungiselelwe ngokwaneleyo ukubuza umbuzo wokuqonda okanye wenze amacebiso ancedo. Ungabi yintlawulelo yezidonga, kodwa ungabi namandla - abafundi bakho abaya kukuthanda ukuba isandla sakho sisoloko siqala. Xa uthumela i-imeyli uprofesa, yenzeni ngesizathu esihle kwaye uhloniphe (musa ukusibamba ngokuthi "dude" okanye ngamagama ethu okuqala ngaphandle kokuba sikucelile ukuba). Vala ifowuni yakho kwaye ungabhali phantsi kwikhosi. Singazixelela.
Azikho zonke iincwadana ziyiyo-kunye nolwazi kule ncwadi. Kukho abaninzi abachaphazelekayo xa bebukele abantwana bethu bekhulile baze bashiye ikhaya, bashiya abazali emva kokuba baqala ubomi obutsha. Kulabo abanenkinga enzima ukuza ngokubhekiselele kutshintsho kwintsapho yabo yokutshintsha okanye igalelo lokutshilo abantwana babo njengentambo ephuma kwidleke, kukho iincwadana malunga nokutsala ukuba ngumama wezemidlalo , ukuvumela abantwana bakho ukuba bahambe, kwaye ukubhala ileta ukuphelisa zonke iincwadi kumntwana wakho.
Njengoko uLisa ubhala kwisicatshulwa sakhe esihle, Ukwazi Abantwana Bethu Okuncinane:
Kwaye baphuma ekhaya. Bavuka ngelinye ilanga nje ngokuba banamawaka eminye iminyango kwaye bahamba ebusuku. Ekuqaleni ndazixelela ukuba kwakufana nekampu (amandla endikukhohlisa ukubonakala ngathi ayifumani imida) kodwa emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa ndimele ndivumele ukuhamba kwamanga amancinci kwaye ndiphikisana nento yokuba ikholeji isuka ekhaya.
Kukho into eninzi yokuyihlola kule ncwadi kubazali abafuna ukukhuthazwa nokuqinisekiswa ukuba yonke into ngokuthumela abantwana babo kwiikholeji iya kuba yinyani. Kwimiba ephathekayo efana nokuthengwa kwe-dorm ukuya kwimibandela eyintsimi efana nokuthetha, ukukhula nokuhamba-ukusuka kwi-11 ye-Grade Stress ukuya kwiKholeji Impumelelo inokufundisa kakhulu nawuphi na umzali wezingane ezikholeji .