Oko Kufuneka Ukwazi Ngo-18-Inyanga Yakho Edala

Ama-Ages kunye neziNqanaba zabaNtwana kwiinyanga ezili-18 zobudala

Umntwana wakho uneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala, kwaye kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kweli nqanaba. Funda kabanzi malunga nesondlo, ukukhula, ukhuseleko, kunye nokunye okusemntwaneni wakho.

Isondlo Sondlo

Ukutya komntwana wakho kuya kuqalisa ukufana nobunye bentsapho, kunye nokutya okuthathu kunye neentsuku zokutya ezimashumi amabini ngosuku. Kumele unciphise ubisi kunye nemveliso yobisi malunga nama-ounces ama-16 ukuya kuma-24 imihla ngemihla kunye nejusi ukuya kwi-4 ukuya kwi-6 ii-ounces ngosuku kwaye unike ukutya okungafaniyo ukukhuthaza iindlela zokutya ezilungileyo emva koko.

Ukuthintela iingxaki zokutya, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba azondle ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, amnike ukukhetha okunempilo aze avumele uvavanyo. Ixesha lokutya kufuneka lizonwabe kwaye lihle kwaye akusiyo umthombo womzabalazo. Ngaphandle kokungavumeli umntwana wakho ukuba aphuze ubisi oluninzi okanye ijusi ukuze alambile izilonda, khusela nokunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba adle xa engalambi, okanye umphoqele ukuba adle ukutya akufunanga.

Ngexa ufanele unikezele ngokutya okufanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo imihla ngemihla, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba intsha encinci iyakudla enye okanye ezimbini ukutya rhoqo ngosuku. Ukuba umntwana ubenokudla kwasekuseni kunye nesidlo sasemini, ngoko kulungile ukuba akafuni ukutya kakhulu ngexesha lokutya.

Ubisi kunye neZiselo

Unokuthi unike umntwana wakho ubisi lobomi oluhle ngokusemgangathweni, nangona ukuba uqhubeka uncelise umntwana wakho ubuncinci ubuncinane ezimbini okanye kathathu ngosuku, mhlawumbi akadingi ubisi lweenkomo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ushintshe ubisi lwebele okanye ifomula yobisi kubisi, ungasebenzisi ipesenti ezi-2, i-fat-fat , okanye ubisi olusisigxina kude kube ngumntwana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokushiya ibhotile kunye nokutshintshela kwikomityi ye- sippy ukuba awukho.

Ukuze ugweme ukuba uncedise nge-fluoride, sebenzisa amanzi okupompoza ngamanzi.

Ukuba usebenzisa ibhodlela okanye amanzi acocekileyo kuphela, ngoko umntwana wakho angadinga i-supplementary fluoride (tshekisha nomvelisi ngamanqanaba akho e-fluoride).

I-Picky Eater

Umntwana wakho unokuqalisa ukugatya ukutya okunye, abe ngumdla ococekileyo okanye aze ahambe ngeebinge apho afuna ukutya ukutya ezithile kuphela. Indlela ebalulekileyo abafundi abafunda ngayo ukuzimela abazimeleyo kukuseka ukuzimela ngokutya. Nangona umntwanakho angenakudla kunye nokutya okunqamlekileyo njengoko ungathanda, xa nje umntwana wakho ekhula ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye enezinga eliqhelekileyo lamandla, mhlawumbi kunokukhathazeka kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba eli lixesha lokuphuhliswa kwakhe apho engakhulayo ngokukhawuleza kwaye akadingi iikhalori ezininzi.

Kwakhona, uninzi lwabantwana aludli ukutya okunokulinganisela imihla ngemihla, kodwa ngaphezu kwexesha leveki okanye kunjalo, ukutya kwabo kuya kudla ngokulinganayo. Unokucinga ukunika umntwana i-vitamin yansuku zonke ukuba ucinga ukuba akayidli kakuhle, nangona abantwana abaninzi abayidingi.

Ukuxhamla iingxaki zokuPhepha

Ezinye iindlela zokuthintela iingxaki zokusondeza akufanele zisebenzise ukutya njengesikhokelo okanye umvuzo ngenxa yokuziphatha okufunayo. Gwema ukugweba umntwana wakho ngokungadli kakuhle. Nciphise intetho yokutya kwimizuzu emihle kunye neyokuzonwabisa.

Gwema ukuxubusha okanye ukuphawula ngemikhwa yokutya engafanelekanga yomntwana ngelixa etafileni. Umlinganiselo wokutya nokusela etafileni okanye kwisihlalo esiphezulu. Ukunciphisa ukutya okuncinci kwizinto ezimbini zokunandipha okunomsoco usuku ngalunye.

Ukondla iindlela zokuphepha ukunika izikhululo ezidakayo, iziphuzo ezithambileyo, iziphuzo eziqhambileyo, iziqhamo zokutya, i-chips okanye i-candy, njengoko zinokutya okuncinci. Kanti ugweme ukunika ukutya umntwana wakho angakunqumla, njengamaqholi aluhlaza, amantyantyambo, iidiliya zonke, ukutya okunzima, i-popcorn, i- chewing gum okanye i-candy enzima.

Uphuhliso, uPhuhliso kunye neMidlalo

Kule minyaka, unokulindela ukuba umntwana wakho abuyele emuva, ahambe ngamanyathelo ngesandla sakhe, ukhabe ibhola, athi amagama 10 ukuya kuma-25, igama lamalungu amathathu omzimba, vula amaphepha encwadi uze ubeke iibhloko ezimbini ndawonye.

Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo, umntwana wakho uya kufunda amagama amatsha, qalisa ukuphosa ibhola ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye usebenzise idibaniso ezimbini zegama.

Unokuqala ukudlala nabanye abantwana, kodwa kuya kuba "umdlalo ofana." Abantwana kule minyaka banomdla kakhulu kwaye banokudlala kunye kunye, kodwa kuya kuba lixesha ngaphambi kokuba baqale ukudlala kunye. Umntwana wakho mhlawumbi akafuni ukwabelana ngezinto zakhe, kwaye unokuba ngumnini. Kubalulekile ukunyamekela ngokubanzi abantwana abadlala kunye nalo nyaka kwaye baqinisekise ukuba omnye umntwana akayi kugcina iimpawu zakhe. Gcina izinto ezimbalwa ezikhethiweyo ezihlukeneyo kwaye azifumaneki ukwabelana ukuze abe nomuva wokulawula.

Eli lixesha lokuba umntwana wakho aqale ukuhlola kwaye azame kwaye ahlole indlela izinto ezisebenza ngayo kwaye ziyakuzonwabisa ngexesha lokudlala. Kubalulekile ukunika udumo oluninzi kunye namathuba amaninzi okuhlola. Ukuba usebenzisa i-pacifier , lixesha elifanelekileyo ukuqala ukukhawulela ukusebenzisa kwalo (okanye ukunikela ngokupheleleyo) kuphela xa umntwana wakho esesibhedeni sakhe, ukwenzela ukuba umdla wakhe uya kuncipha.

Ukulala nokuPhala

Abancinci baninzi bathabatha ubuncinci bodwa be- naps (ubude be-naps baqheleke kakhulu phakathi kwabantwana abahlukeneyo, kodwa i-naps idla ngo-1 ukuya kwi-1/2 iiyure ubude) ngeli xesha kule minyaka kwaye banako ukulala ubusuku bonke (ukuya ku-11 ukuya ku-12 iiyure). Ukuba akunjalo, khangela ukuba uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho unesidingo sokulala ngexesha elihle kwaye uye waqulunqa imibutho efanelekileyo yokulala.

Xa umntwana wakho ekwazi ukukhuphuka kwisibhedlele sakhe (kwaye sele usenciphise i-mattress kwaye usususe i- bumper pads ), kufike ixesha lokumhambisa ebhedini encinane . Ukuba umntwana wakho unamamitha amathathu ubude, unokuba ufuna ukumhambisa kumbhede omncinci nangona engakhange ekhuphuke esikhwameni sakhe. Ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokuphuma ngaphandle kwisibhedlele li malunga neenyanga ezilishumi elinesibhozo ukuya kwimibini emibini.

Ukukhusela kwi-18-Inyanga-yeNyanga

Iingozi ziyintloko ebangela ukufa kwabantwana. Uninzi lwabafileyo luyakuthinteka lula, kwaye ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ukhuseleko lomntwana wakho engqondweni ngamaxesha onke. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekile:

Umntwana Ubungqina Bakho Ekhaya

Iintsana zihamba kwaye zihlola indawo yazo. Uya kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okulondoloza ekhaya lakho nakwiindawo ezifana neendlunkulu zabanomkhulu ohlala kuyo apho umntwana wakho onokutyelela khona.

Iingxaki Zempilo Eziqhelekileyo

Uhambo lwezonyango

Uza kubakho rhoqo ukutyelela oogqirha bonyango lwakho kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana wakho ukuze ukukhula kunye nophuhliso lwakhe lunokubekwa iliso. Khumbula ukubhala phantsi nayiphi na imibuzo ongayenza ngayo ugqirha wakho phambi kokutyelela ukuze ungabalibali.

Kwiinyanga ezili-18 zokuhlola, unokulindela:

Kuza kukhangela isithuba sakho kwinqanaba lonyango lonyango uza kuba xa umntwana wakho eneminyaka emi-2 ubudala.

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> Iannelli, V. Umntwana wakho. KeepKidsHealthy.com. Gcina i-Kids Healthy, LLC.