Ukuba neentloni kunye nokwaziswa kwangethuba akuyona into efanayo, nangona ikhangeleka enye. I-introvert iyonwabela ixesha yodwa kwaye iyancipha emva kokuchitha ixesha elininzi nabanye. Umntu onamahloni akafuneki ukuba yedwa kodwa oyika ukusebenzisana nabanye.
Cinga ngoonyana ababini kwiklasi elifanayo, omnye u-introverted and one shy.
Utitshala ulungelelanisa umsebenzi kubo bonke abantwana egumbini. Umntwana osungulwayo ufuna ukuhlala edeskini yakhe aze afunde incwadi kuba ufumanisa ukuba nabo bonke abanye abantwana bacinezelekile. Umntwana onamahloni ufuna ukujoyina abanye abantwana kodwa uhlala edeskini yakhe ngenxa yokuba ukwesaba ukujoyina.
Abantwana banokuncedwa ukuba banqobe ukunyaniseka kwabo, kodwa ukungeniswa kwinto eninzi inxalenye yomntu njengezinwele okanye umbala wamehlo. Ngamanye amazwi, abantu banokufumana unyango ngenxa yokwesaba, kodwa kungekhona ukuzazisa. Akunabo bonke abathumelayo abanamahloni. Enyanisweni, ezinye zinezakhono ezentlalo zentlalo. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokubandakanya kwimisebenzi yentlalontle, i-introvert izakukhutshwa ngokwemvakalelo kwaye idinga ixesha elilodwa ukuba "lizalise" iibhetri zabo zemoya.
Nangona unyango lunokunceda umntu onamahloni, ezama ukubuyisela ukungena kwi- extrovert ephumayo kunokubangela uxinzelelo kwaye ibangele iingxaki ngokuzithemba. Ama-Introverts angafunda amaqhinga okulungisa ukubanceda bajongane neemeko zentlalo, kodwa baya kuhlala beqala.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho unokungeniswa, ungase ufune ukujonga ezinye zeempawu zobungqina kwaye ubone ukuba zininzi zazo umntwana wakho.
Indlela Yokunceda Umntwana Wethu?
Into yokuqala yokuyenza kukuba uqaphele ukuba ukungeniswa kwintlungu akuyona ingxaki efuna uhlobo oluthile lwenyango. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana wakho onokuqala akafuni ngokwenene uncedo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyavuya kwaye uphilile, kukho ezinye izinto onokuzenza.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ngomntwana wakho kukuqonda ukuqala kunye nokwamkela ukuba lo luphawu lomntu oluqhelekileyo. Yamkela ukuba umntwana wakho angeke abe yi-butterflies yentlalo obenethemba lokuba uya kuba, ukuba ikhaya lakho lingenako ukuzaliswa ngabahlobo abaninzi bomntwana wakho rhoqo. Yamkela ukuba umntanakho uya kuthanda ukuchitha ixesha elide wodwa. Yamkela ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana nje abahlobo abambalwa abasondeleyo.
Ukuba unako ukuwamkela ezi mpawu, ngoko uya kuba nzima ukunyusa umntwana wakho ukuba enze imisebenzi yentlalo kunokuba uzive ekhululekile.
Qinisekisa kwakhona, ukubonelela ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho aphephe emva kwemisebenzi yentlalo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uye kwiqela, umzekelo, ungamangaliswa ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elilodwa. Ukuhamba ukusuka kwintlalo yoluntu ukuya kwenye, kwanokuba usondlo lweentsapho, lunokuba ngumngcipheko kumntwana kwaye umenze unqabile.
Ukukhulisa umntwana ongenayo kungenzima, ngakumbi kubazali abangenayo. Kodwa njengabo bonke abantwana, nto abayidingayo kakhulu uthando kunye nokuqonda.