Ukufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho unokugxothwa esikolweni unokumotheka kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umzali. Ukuya esikolweni inxalenye enkulu yobomi okanye yobomi bentsha. Unokhathazeka ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kuba nethuba lokugqiba imfundo esemgangathweni kwaye bonke ubomi bomntwana bakho baya kuthinteka.
Nangona ukuxoshwa kwesikolo kukubaluleke kakhulu, akupheli ngokupheleleyo ukufikelela komntwana kwimfundo okanye amathuba amaninzi kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuze ube nesiphumo esihle, uya kufuna ukuqala ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ekuqaleni kwenkqubo yokuxoshwa kwaye uqhubeke nokubonelela ngenkxaso efunekayo.
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Ukuba ufumene ifowuni esuka kwisikolo somntwana malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, uya kufuna ukucaca ukuba umntwana wakho ujongene nokugxothwa okanye ukumiswa. Ubude kunye nobuqili bezenzo ezimbini zoluleko zifuna amanyathelo ahlukeneyo athathwe ngabazali kwisiphumo esihle kakhulu.
Ukugxininiswa kwesikolo kaninzi kuyisenzo senzathelo elifutshane apho umntwana engase ahlale khona eklasini eliqhelekileyo iintsuku ezilishumi okanye ngaphantsi. Ukumiswa kungasesikolweni, apho umntwana eya kwindlu egqityiweyo kwaye uyaphathwa. Ngexesha lokumiswa esikolweni umntwana angenako ukubonakala esikolweni.
Umntwana uxoshwa esikolweni xa bengasavunyelwa ukuba baye esikolweni ixesha elide, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngonyaka okanye ngaphezulu.
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukugxothwa kuthetha ukuba umntwana akayi kuvunyelwa ukuba aye esikolweni, kodwa kuzo zonke izikolo zikarhulumente, oku akunjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kwexesha elide kakhulu, umntwana unokukwazi ukubhalisa kwakhona. Basenokuba neemeko ezikhethekileyo ukudibana ukuze benze njalo. Ukuxoshwa akusayi kuba siphelo semfundo yabantwana bakho.
Xa Abantwana Baya Kucinywa?
Ekubeni ukugxothwa kweyona nto inzulu isenzo esiya kuthatha isikolo, kubonwa njengesigwebo sokugqibela esikolweni.
Kwizikolo zikarhulumente, kugcinwe ukuziphatha okubi kakhulu. Izikolo zikarhulumente zinembopheleleko yokubonelela ngemfundo kubantwana abahlala kwimida yabo. Izizathu zokuxoshwa zihlala zikhokelwa yimithetho yombuso kunye nombuso.
Ngaphantsi komthetho we-Gun-Free Schools Act, nayiphi na umfundi ozisa isibhamu kwisikolo kufuneka axoshwe iminyaka engaphantsi komnyaka opheleleyo.
Amaninzi amaninzi anemithetho edinga ukuxoshwa ngokuzisa ezinye izixhobo, njengemigu, esikolweni. Ukuzisa, ukuthengisa okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi esikolweni kunokukhokelela ekugxothweni, kuxhomekeke kwimeko.
Izikolo ezizimeleyo azifunyanwanga ukufundisa bonke abantwana abahlala kwindawo ethile. Basenokubeka imithetho yabo malunga nabani abaxoshayo. Ezi zikhokelo mazifakwe kwi-bookbook yomfundi. Nangona izikolo ezizimeleyo ziza kugcina ukugxothwa kuphela ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi kakhulu, izikolo ezizimeleyo zingabandakanya ukuziphatha abazikholelwayo ukuba bangahambelani nonke ngenjongo yesikolo sabucala.
Izikolo ezininzi, zoluntu kunye nolwangasese, ziya kubakhupha abafundi ngokuziphatha okuyingozi ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengokuxhatshazwa okanye ukulwa.
Basenokuba nemithetho yokuba inani elithile lokugxininiswa kwesikolo liya kuqhubela phambili ekuxothweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luphi uhlobo lokuziphatha oluphindaphindiweyo.
Amanyathelo okuthabatha ngaphambi kokugxothwa
Kukho izinto ezininzi ongayenza phakathi kwexesha ofunda ngayo umntwana wakho ujongene nokugxothwa kunye nesigqibo sele sigqityiwe ukuxosha umntwana wakho esikolweni.
Cinga ukudibanisa ne-Attorney
Uninzi lweziphatho ezikhokelela ekukhutshweni esikolweni lunokukhokelela ekuhlawulweni kwecala. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokujongana neentlawulo zolwaphulo-mthetho, ukuqhagamshelana negqwetha kuqala kusinika igqwetha ithuba lokuba anike isikhokelo kulo lonke inkqubo.
Ukongezelela, inkqubo yokuxoshwa kunye nenkqubo yolwaphulo-mthetho inokuchaphazela omnye nomnye. Ukuba ukhetha ukudibanisa negqwetha, kucacise ukuba kukho ukuxoshwa kwesikolo kunye kunye neentlawulo zolwaphulo-mthetho.
Fumana zombini i-Indaba yebali
Uqhagamshelwano lokuqala ofumana kwisikolo luya kuba ngumnxeba wokucela ukuba uze esikolweni ukuva ukuba kutheni baqwalasela ukuxosha umntwana wakho. Uya kufuna ukuza kule ntla nganiso kwaye uphulaphule ngokunyamekileyo oko kubatshiwo ngabasebenzi besikolo.
Hlalani nizolile kule ntla nganiso kwaye nigxininise ekuphulaphuleni nasekubuzeni imibuzo ukuze niqiniseke ukuba niyaqonda icala likali lebali.
Abasebenzi besikolo baya kuchaza oko bakholwa ngumntanakho, kwaye bakuxelele ubungqina obufanele baxhasane nalo. Basenokuchaza ukuba banevidiyo, ingxelo evela kwititshala okanye abanye abafundi ababone indlela yokuziphatha, okanye ukuba umntwana wakho ubanjwe ngqo ngabasebenzi. Gcina imibuzo yakho igxininise kwizinto abazithethayo umntwana wakho, ukuba bazi njani oku, kunye nendlela ehlangabezana ngayo nemigqaliselo yokuxoshwa.
Emva koko uya kufuna ukuba neengxoxo zokuzola kunye nomntwana wakho ebacela kwicala labo. Unokuba ufuna ukuxelela umntwana ngaphambili ukuba kubalulekile ukuba bathembeke nawe ngoku ngoku, ukuze uwancede kule meko.
Qaphela ukuba iimfuno zabantwana bakho zenkxaso ngeemvakalelo, ukuziphatha okanye ezinye iingxaki
Isiganeko kunye nokuziphatha okukhokelela ekugxothweni kungaba yesaziso ekufuneka ujongane nengxaki umntwana wakho ejongene nayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubanjwe neziyobisi esikolweni , unokufuna ukuvavanya utywala. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlangabezana neengxaki zokulwa, banokuba nemiba yeemvakalelo efuna ukungenelela.
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Njengoko kuthethwe ngentla, imithetho yokuxoshwa imiselwe ngokubanzi ngamazwe. Unokufunda okungaphezulu ngamalungelo omntwana wakho kwaye xa isikolo sikwazi ukugxotha umfundi ngokufumanisa ukuba izikhokelo zakho zikarhulumente ziphi. Unokufumana izikhokelo zikarhulumente kwiziko lewebhu elibonelelwe nguMnyango wezeMfundo waseMelika.
Fumana incwadi Yomfundi
Ukongezelela ekuqondeni imithetho yomgaqo-nkqubo welizwe, imithetho yemigaqo yesikolo kunye neenkqubo kufuneka zifakwe kwi-bookbook student bookbook. Izikolo ezininzi zinika iikopi zencwadi kubantwana ekuqaleni konyaka wesikolo. Zingafumaneka kwakhona kwiwebhusayithi yesikolo. Unokucela nesikolo ukuba sikunike ikopi.
Fumana kwaye ugcine Iikopi zeMibhalo ehambelanayo
Izikolo zifunwa ukubonelela izaziso ezibhaliweyo zokumiswa kunye nokuxoshwa. Gcina iikopi kwanoma yimaphi amaphepha ephakamileyo esikolweni anikezela ngalo. Unokucela kwakhona nawaphi na amaxwebhu anxulumene nokuxoshwa komntwana wakho.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ujongene nokugxothwa ngenxa yokumiswa okuphindaphindiweyo, qiniseka ukuba unazo zonke izaziso kunye namaxwebhu malunga nokumiswa kokudlulileyo. Ukuba awuzange unikezwe ngezi zaziso, okanye ulahlekise ukuba bacele isikolo iikopi ezintsha.
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Unokukhubazeka
Abafundi abakhubazekileyo banamalungelo akhethekileyo xa bejongene nokuxoshwa phantsi komthetho we-federal. Izikolo mazilandele iimfuno ezithile, njengokujonga ukuba ukhubaze umfundi ngumba okanye into ekuziphatha ngayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhubazekile kwaye uxoshwa, umntwana wakho makabe nokufikelela kwimfundo ekhululekile nefanelekileyo.
Lungiselela ukuLawula
Imithetho yase-Federal ithi umntwana wakho unelungelo lokuvalelwa ngaphambi kokuxoshwa. Le nkqubo ihluka phakathi kweendawo kunye nezithili zesikolo. Yintoni le nkqubo ifanele idibanise yithuba lesikolweni kunye necala lomntwana webali ukuba live. Ibali lomntwana wakho lingenziwa nguwe okanye umntu omkhethile njengommeli wemfundo okanye igqwetha.
Uya kufuna ukwazi indlela yokubonisa ubungqina obubonisa ukuba okanye umntwana wakho waqhekeza umgaqo wesikolo kwaye ingaba angafanele axoshwe phantsi kwesikhokelo sesikolweni. Uyakwazi ukuzisa amangqina, amaxwebhu owamkele esikolweni, okanye obunye ubungqina.
Cinga Ngenyameko NgokuBhenela
Ukuvalelwa kuya kukhokelela kwisigqibo malunga nokuba umntwana wakho ukhutshelwe esikolweni. Kuyaqondakala ukuba udideke, unomsindo okanye unomsindo xa umntwana wakho ukhutshwa. Inkqubo yokuxoshwa ingaba nzima kubo bonke abandakanyekayo, kuquka nomzali onothando oye walomeleza kakhulu umntwana wabo. Usenokuba nethemba lokuba ukuva kuyakuba ngumphelo wale nkqubo, kwaye endaweni yoko, awukho ukuxoshwa ngokwayo ukuphatha. Isibheno sinokubonakala ngathi siyindlela yokukhawuleza ukubuyisela umzila wakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka usibheno kuphela xa ukholwa ukuba ubungqina obuvakalayo abuzange buxhase isigqibo sokugxotha umntwana wakho. Ukuba wenza isigqibo sokubhenela, kufuneka ufumane izikhokelo ezibonisa indlela yokwenza njalo kwincwadi yesifundo okanye kwezinye izinto oye wanikwa zona kwisithili sesikolo.
Izinyathelo Zokuthatha Xa Umntwana Wakho Uxothwa
Usuke udlule kwinkqubo ecinezelekileyo ukuba ufumane ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhishwa. Unokufumana iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemivo evela ekuphumuleni ukuba inkqubo yokuvalelwa iphelile, okanye ididekile kwisiphumo. Kubalulekile ukuba uzinakekele.
Umntwana wakho usakudinga ngexesha ulungelelanisa nokuxoshwa ngokwawo. Ixesha lexesha lokuxoshwa likwazisa nemingeni emitsha. Ukunyamekela kuya kukunceda ukunceda umntwana wakho ngeli xesha.
Hlola iindlela zokufunda
Njengoko kushiwo ngaphambili, ukuxothwa akuthethi ukuphela kwemfundo yomntwana wakho. Isithili sesikolo sakho somntwana sinokuba nesikolo esiphezulu se-intanethi esiya kufumaneka kumntwana wakho. Kukho nokuba kubekho isikolo esikhethekileyo kubantwana nakwishumi eliye laxoshwa. Unako ukufaka isicelo sokuba umntwana wakho abhalise kolunye ukolo lwesikolo ukuba ukhetho oluvulekile olukhoyo kwindawo yakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isikolo asiyi kuba naluphi na uhlobo lwemfundo olufumanekayo kunyaka opheleleyo kunyaka okhutshiwe. Kule meko, unokufuna ukuhlola izikolo zasekhaya okanye ezizimeleyo.
Naluphi na ukhetho olukhethayo, qiniseka ukuba olu khetho olutsha luhambisana neemfuno ezikhethekileyo zomntwana wakho.
Qonda onke Amagatya okuxothwa
Uya kufuna ukuqonda ukuba kwaye nini xa umntwana wakho ebuyela esikolweni. Ukuba zixoshwa ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo ngaphambi kokuba zicetywe ukunyusa isikolo, njengonyaka wokugqibela wesikolo esiphakathi ngaphambi kwesikolo esiphakeme, fumana ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukuya esikolweni esikolweni esilandelayo.
Uya kufuna ukwazi ukuba bavinjelwe kwizikolo zesikolo, yonke indawo yesithili yesikolo, ixesha elide, kwaye phantsi kweyiphi imeko. Ukuba umntwana wakho enqwenela ukuya esikweni esikhethekileyo sesikolo somntakwabo okanye umhlobo osondeleyo kwaye baye bavinjelwa kwizikolo zesikolo, fumana ukuba kukho indlela yokucela ukupasa okhethekileyo kweso siganeko.
Funda iMigomo yokubuyela esikolweni
Umntwana wakho unokufumana iimfuno ezithile zokubuyela esikolweni. Amanyathelo angabhalwa ngaphandle kwesicwangciso sokungena kwakhona esikolweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo isicwangciso sokungena kwakhona senzelwe ukunceda umfundi athathe amanyathelo okuphepha ukuphinda ukuphinda nokuziphatha okubangele ukuxoshwa. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthemba ukuba abuyele kwinkqubo yesikolo abaye baxoshwa kuyo, isicwangciso sokungena kwakhona sifanele sichaze ngokuthe ngqo ukuba senzeni ukubuyela.
Sekunjalo, ngelo xesha kulungile ukuzama ukuqhubeka nokufunda imfundo ukuphepha ukuhamba emva kwesikolo . Ukuba isicwangciso sokungena kwakhona asibandakanyi ukufunda okuqhubekayo, usenokufuna umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubeke efunda ngeendlela zokufunda ezibhalwe ngasentla.
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Nangona umntwana enokuxoshwa esikolweni kukuxinzeleleke kakhulu, kuyisiganeko esingasigxina apho umntwana wakho angafikelela khona. Ngenkxaso efanelekileyo, ixesha lokuxoshwa linokunika umntwana wakho ixesha lokulungisa imiba ekhokelela ekugxothweni.