Ukucinga Ngokufanelekileyo Xa Ukulindela Amawele, Amathathu, okanye ii-Quads
Ukuba ukhulelwe ngamawele okanye ezininzi , vuyisana! Unokuvakalelwa kwaye ujabule, ngakumbi xa uye wahamba uhambo olude ukuya kweli nqanaba.
Kuqhelekile ukuba uve neentloni, ukwesaba okanye udideke. Kukho iingozi ekukhulelweni ezininzi.
Unokukhathazeka ngokulahlekelwa yiintsana okanye uzibuze ukuba uya kuba nakho ukubakhathalela xa befika.
Unokuva ulaka-ukukhulelwa kunzima kuwe, kwaye ngoku ujamelene nokukhulelwa okunzima nokuzalwa.
Kuyinyani kukho izingozi zokuphindaphinda . Kufuneka uxelelwe ngemingcipheko ukwenzela ukuba uqaphele iimpawu ezinzima kwaye wenze ukhetho olunolwazi.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezininzi iinkalo ezintle zokuphatha nokukhulisa ngaphezu kweyodwa intsana ngexesha.
Ukulahlwa akulungile, kodwa kugxininisa kuphela into engeyiyo.
Nazi ezinye iingcinga ezilungileyo kumawele kunye nokuphindaphinda.
Ezimbini (okanye ezintathu okanye ezine)
Khumbulani xa unethemba lokubona nayiphi na intliziyo yeskrini se ultrasound?
Ngethuba lokuqala i-techs ultrasound ayikufumani enye kuphela kodwa ibe ngaphezu kwesinye intliziyo, unokuvuyisa kwaye uyothuka.
Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, njengoko ufika ngokukhawuleza ukwamkela ukukhulelwa okubanzi, ukubona i-blip ngaphezu kweyodwa kwesikrini kuya kukufudumala intliziyo yakho.
Ngaphambili (nangaphezulu!) Ukuvalelwa kweMoto yoThutho
Oomama abaninzi banokuthabatha intshukumo yamaveki ngaphambi kokuba oomama bama-singleton.
Xa uqala ukuhamba, unokufuna ukuba uthule kwaye uqhubeke. Iimvakalelo zinokukhanya, njengama-butterflies.
Njengoko ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, ukunyakaza kuya kubonakala ngakumbi.
Kusondele ekupheleni, abantu abahlezi kufuphi nawe banako ukubona ama-bumps kwaye bagxininise!
Yenza kabini i-Baby Bliss
Njengomama weeninzi, uya kuvuya ngokuphindwe kabini (okanye kathathu okanye kathathu!) Umntwana uyavuya.
Amama omnye usenokuba umntwana angabheka umntwana wabo olele aze amncumo ngovuyo.
Kodwa uya kukhangela ubuso obunye, kwaye ke omnye ubuso obunomdla, mhlawumbi omnye!
Uza kufikelela ekugqabeleni kokumomotheka kokuqala, ukuqala kokuqala, igama lokuqala, isinyathelo sokuqala, njalo njalo, ngaphezu kweyodwa.
Uvuyo alukho kumntwana ozayo. Umzuzu ngamnye omkhulu uxabiseke.
Ukuxhamla kokuBheka abantwana abaninzi kukhula kunye
Unokuqala ukuziva ngathi uhamba ubungqina kuphando lwakho ekhaya, njengoko ubona abantwana bakho bekhula ngamazinga ahlukeneyo nangeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Sonke siyazi ukuba umntu ngamnye ngumntu. Oko kwathiwa, asisoloko sifika ukubona abantwana okanye abantwana kwixesha elilinganayo, benyuka kwindawo enye, bakhula ndawonye.
Ngokomzekelo, abantwana bakho abanokuqala ukuhamba ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kodwa bafikelele kwiyona ndlela ibalulekileyo kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Omnye unokuhlawula aze aqhube aze ahambe. Omnye unokuthi unxweme ngeenxa zonke kwigumbi kwaye ungalokothi ukhawuleze.
Ukuba unamawele afanayo, unokuzibuza ngezinto ezizenzayo ezifanayo xa kuthelekiswa nezinto ezenzayo ezikhetheke kakhulu.
Ukuba unenkwenkwe nentombazana, unokufumana ityantya indlela edlala ngayo okanye ephuhlise kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo (okanye ezifanayo).
Abadlali abadlala ngokuzenzekelayo
Amawele ambalwa asinakuhlala ehamba phambili kubadlali abadlala nabo, njengabaphi na abantakwabo. Kodwa kwiminyaka emncinci ngakumbi, baya kuba ngabalingani babo bokuqala. Iingcamango zobomi ngaphandle kwamawele abo aziyi kubakho nakhona.
Njengoko bekhula, amanye amawele ahlala esondelene nabo. Basenokuba nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nabo abadala.
Iintsapho ezizenzekelayo
Ukuba unamawele, kwaye ngaba ngowokuqala, usuvele unesilinganiso sobukhulu bentsapho yaseMelika yabantwana ababini.
Umndeni ozenzekelayo!
Fumana i-Diapers kunye neNdlala ezingenakulala ngaphandle kweNdlela
Ewe, ukuba uceba ukufumana ngaphezulu, oku kungabi nzuzo enkulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ucinga ukuba ezi ziya kubantwana bakho bokugqibela, uya kukwazi ukuhamba ngeentsuku ze-diaper kunye nobusuku obungenalutho ngokukhawuleza, kunokuba ube ngaphezu kwexesha eliyiminyaka emine ukuya kwemihlanu.
Utshintsho lwakho lwe-diaper kunye nokungabikho kokulala luya kuba lukhulu ngakumbi kunabo banakekela umntwana omnye. Akubona wonke umntu uya kuvuma le ndlela elula.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba uya kugxininisa kwiimpawu ezilungileyo, unakho ukubhiyozela umzila wenkampu ye-boot camp multiplication - ngokugqithiseleyo kodwa ngokukhawuleza!
Ukukhuthaza abahlobo kunye nabahambi kwiiNkampani
Ukuba uye wajongana nokungabi nantlungu kwithuba elithile, mhlawumbi uphulaphule isabelo sakho sabazali isikhalazo malunga nezingane zabo.
Usenokuba uvile ukuthetha okucaphukisayo , "Khawucinge ngethamsanqa ukuba unabantwana! Bawuthatha ubomi bakho!"
Ewe, ngoku, unako ukukhupha abo bantu.
Xa beqala ukukhononda ngomntwana wabo omnye okanye umntwana omnye omncinci, unokuthi, "Ndineamawele." (Okanye ezintathu, okanye i-quads, nantoni na enayo.)
Eyona nto ifanelekileyo, yitsho ngokungenasiphelo. Ngeglasi yewayini ngesandla.
Basenokuthi, "O, andinakuze ndiphathe amawele!"
Yisiphi na apho, kwakhona, kwizwi eliphumayo elithulekileyo, "Mhlawumbi ulungile." Ngokomntu, ndisezulwini. "
Yaye ukuba bayichaza umama okanye utata, yamkela eso sihloko ngekratshi.
(Ndivakalelwa ukuba kufuneka ukuba uthethe ukuba ungaziva uphatha amawele okanye kathathu kakuhle, oko kusemgangathweni.) Cela uncedo kulabo abanokukuxhasa ngenkxaso. nto encinci malunga nokufaneleka kwakho!)
Gxininisa kwiCandelo eliPhezulu leMatriki
Ewe, ukuzalwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunye neeninzi kuza neengozi. Kodwa ezo zengozi ziza negalelo elifanelekileyo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ama-10% omama amawele afumana isifo sikashukela , i-90% yamaama amawele ayifuni.
Ukuba omnye koomama abane amawele bajamelana nokukhulelwa komfutho wokhuseleko lwegazi, abathathu abane abaneengxaki zegazi eliphezulu.
Ukuba ama-10% eamawele afanayo abelana ngolwazi olulodwa lwe-placenta lwe- twin-twin syndrome (iTTTS) , i-90% ayikho.
Amaphesenti angamashumi amathandathu amawele azalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi . Kodwa ama-40% azalwa ngexesha. Kula mawele azalwa emva kweveki ezingama-35, malunga nesiqingatha bazalwa ngamanzi.
Qaphela ukuba ungasebenzisi icandelo elincinci leenkcukacha ukuba ungayihoyi iimpawu okanye uphuse iilawuni zonyango.
Ukulinganisela kwakho ithemba ngokulumkisa, kwaye unako ukufumana ukukhulelwa okunomsoco kwaye ujabule.
Ngaphezulu kumawele
- Ingozi yokukhulelwa komzimba
- Yintoni eyandisa amathuba ami okuba namawele
- Iimpawu zokuZithwa kweziTyhulwa kunye nemiqondiso
- Iimpompo ze-Clomid: Ziziphi iingxaki oza kuzibona?
- Imibuzo: Ngaba Ngaba Ukholo Lwenu Lokufumana Iimbini Eziphezulu Kuninzi?
Okunye malunga nokukhulelwa:
- Ziziphi iiNqanaba zeHCG eziqhelekileyo?
- Ukwenza isimemezelo sokukhulelwa emva kokungahambi
- Ndimithi! Ngoku kuthweni?
- Imibuzo eqhelekileyo kunye nexhala emva koMphumo woVavanyo lweNtsholongwane
- Indlela Yokufumana Ukukhulelwa Okusemzimbeni Emva kokungahambi
- Ixesha lokuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa
- Ubungqina bokuqala nokukhulelwa
Imithombo:
USchmitz T, uCarnavalet Cde C, uAzria E, Lopez E, iC Cabrol D, iGoffinet F. "Iziphumo zeNonatal yokukhulelwa ngama-twin ngokwemiqathango ecwangcisiweyo yokunikezelwa." I-Obstetrics kunye neGynecology. 2008 Mar; 111 (3): 695-703.
Ukuzama Ukukhulelwa. Matshi weDimes. Kufumaneka ngoFebruwari 3, 2012. http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/trying_multiples.html