Indlela yokuphendula kumantombazana athetha umsebenzi
Ukuziphatha kwentombazana kuthetha ukuthini ukuphela esikolweni esiphakeme. Enyanisweni, abantu abadala bathetha amantombazana atholakala kuyo yonke indawo oya kuyo. Bangabonakala bemi ngecala lezemidlalo , ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimibutho yabazali okanye amaqela omama , aqhuba imibutho yamavolontiya kunye nokuqhuba imisebenzi ephambili emsebenzini. Kwaye, ingqwalasela yabo ephambili kukukwenza ubomi bakho bube buhlungu.
Bakhohlisa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bahlambalaza kwaye injongo yabo inokulawula ngokupheleleyo kwabanye ababajikelezile.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abadala bathetha amantombazana basebenzisa ubugwenxa obudlelane njengento yokunyelisa, ukuhleba, ukuxela, ukubizela amagama , ukuchithwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokubanzi ukuze kuhlonipheke, kusongele kwaye kuhlukumeze iithagethi zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha, abanye abafazi baya kujoyina kuhlaselo. Ngamanye amaxesha, bahlala besithule okanye bahamba kunye noxhatshazo. Xa oko kwenzeka, kukhulisa kuphela iimvakalelo zokungancedi kunye neentsholongwane zokhuseleko. Ukuba ezi zinto zithetha ukuziphatha njengento enokuzifumana kuyo kwindawo yokusebenzela, khangela ezi ngcebiso eziyisixhenxe zokujongana kunye nokujongana namantombazana anentsingiselo yabantu abadala.
Yiba nethemba.
I-ofisi ithetha ukuba amantombazana abanakho ukuqonda ukuba ngubani na ongakwazi ukulawula kwaye asebenzise. Ngoko kungakhathaliseki ukuba benzani, qiniseka ukuba uncumo, hlala uqinile kwaye uhlale uyingcali. Gwema ukukhangela ukwesaba, ukungaqiniseki okanye ukutshatyalaliswa.
Kuthetha ukuba amantombazana akakwazi ukuzama amaqhinga akho kwakhona xa uhlala unethemba kwaye ulawula. Gcina isilwanyana sakho kwaye ungangenisi ukunyanzeliswa okanye ukukhala. Bafuna ubuthathaka kwaye xa beyifumana, baya kuwuxhaphaza.
Qaphela into elawulwayo kwaye into engekho.
Khumbula, awukwazi ukulawula oko abanye abantu bathi okanye benze.
Kodwa, unokulawula ukuphendula kwakho. Hlala ubuchwephesha, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni intombazana athetha ngayo okanye yenzayo. Gcina iimpendulo zakho ngaphandle kwesidima kunye nomsindo. Yaye ukuba awukwazi ukuphendula ngendlela ezolile, maneka. Emva koko, cinga indlela yokujongana nemeko kwikamva. Yilungiselele ukuba kukho olunye uhlaselo.
Yimela wena.
Funda indlela yokuqinisekisa nokuzithemba. Ukuba unalo lwazi, uthatha iiklasi okanye ufunde iincwadi malunga nendlela yokuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho nokuzithemba. Funda ukuzikhusela ngendlela ehloniphekileyo ngaphandle kokuba nobudlova okanye usho ukuthini ngokubuyisela. Ngokomzekelo, cacisa ukuba le ngongoma yomfazi kunye neendlela zokuxhatshazwa azixhamli kwaye aziyi kunyamezela. Bonisa ukuba uceba ukubika nayiphi na into yokusetyenziswa kakubi. Khumbula, iintombazana zithetha ukuba uhlala uziphathe ngokuziphatha kwabo. Babonise ukuba benze iphutha ekujoliseni wena kwaye baya kufunda ukushiya wedwa.
Qhubeka usebenza nzima.
Musa ukuvumela i-ofisi yentetho yentombazana ukuba idibanise emsebenzini. Ngokomzekelo, musa ukuchitha ixesha lokushayela i-imeyili okanye uxoxe nabanye abasebenzisana nabo malunga nento eyenzekayo. Ukwenza njalo kudala idrama kwaye kunika intombazana entle into ayifunayo. Kunoko, gxininisa ekuqhubekeni ukuvelisa umsebenzi omgangatho ophezulu.
Musa ukuvumela ingxubusho ebangelwa ziziganeko zabanye kukubangela ukuba uwele emva kweeprojekthi.
Fumana iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana.
Ukujongana neofisi intombazana inentsingiselo ingabangela uxinzelelo. Ngenxa yoko, unokufumanisa ukuba umsebenzi, ukupapashwa okanye umdlalo omtsha uza kunceda ukulawula uxinzelelo. Ezinye iindlela zokukhetha zibandakanya ukuzithandela, iinkonzo zonqulo ezifana nokuthandaza, nokufumana amathuba okongeza ezentlalo. Nantoni na ukhethayo, qiniseka ukuba unako ukukhulula uxinzelelo, ulibale ngomsebenzi uze uphumule. Ukwenza njalo kuya kuhamba ixesha elide ukugcina ingqondo kunye nempilo yakho.
Ukugxotha kwingxoxo.
Ukuba ungummeli ukuba uthethe ukuziphatha kwentombazana, zithethelele kwincoko egcwele ingxoxo ngokubonisa ukuba kufuneka wenze umnxeba okanye ukuba unentlanganiso.
Ukuba unika abaphulaphuli ngentetho yentombazana enentsingiselo, uya kuqhubeka ufunwa. Enye indlela yokumisa intombazana enentliziyo kukuthatha abaphulaphuli bakhe. Uncedo ukuyeka ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokungathathi inxaxheba. Kubalulekile ukubika ukuziphatha okungalunganga kumphathi. Kananjalo unokunikela ukuba ube ngumhlobo nomntu ojoliswe kuyo.
Bika indlela yokuziphatha.
Ungavumeli ukuxhatshazwa kwendawo yokusebenzela ukuba kuqhubeke ixesha elide. Xhumana nobutyebi bomntu okanye umphathi wakho. Kwakhona ingcinga efanelekileyo yokugcina irekhodi yazo zonke iziganeko zokuxhatshazwa kuquka imihla, amaxesha kunye namangqina. Gcina yonke incwadi ye-elektroniki, ingakumbi ukuba iofisi ithetha intombazana indawo yokusebenzela i-cyberbully. Xa ubika ingxelo yokuziphatha, qiniseka ukuba uhlale uxolo kwaye unamathele kwii nyaniso. Gwema ukuvakalelwa okanye ukubiza amagama entombazana entle. Ukufumana iimvakalelo kunokubangela ukuba umphathi wakho agxininise kwiimvakalelo zakho kunokubhekisele kumbandela okhoyo.
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Khumbula, ukujongana nokuziphatha kwentombazana kunokunyaniseka. Ukuba uziva utyhilekile, ucinezelekile okanye uxhalabile, qhagamshelana nomcebisi ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awunalo umcebisi ukubabize, cela udokotela wakho ngcebiso. Kodwa, akukaze kube yinto efanelekileyo ukungahoywa kwimiphumo yokuxhatshazwa emsebenzini. Udinga ukujongana nokuziphatha kwentombazana ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuthatha umthwalo wakho.