Xa Kukhethwa Kulungile?
Ukuncelisa ibele kuphela yindlela ekhuthazwayo yokutya umntwana wakho ezintandathu zokuqala zokuphila. Kodwa, ixesha elide uncelise ngayo umntwana wakho kufikelela kuwe nakwiimeko zakho. Ukuba kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza emsebenzini okanye kwisikolo, okanye ufuna nje ukuncelisa ixesha elithile kunye nokutya kwebhotile ixesha elithile, ukuxelisa okanye ukuncoma okuncinane kunokukhetha okulungileyo.
Khumbula, ukuncelisa akufuneki ukuba konke okanye akukho nto. Ukunyamezela ngokukhethekileyo kunye nokuncoma ngokukhawuleza kuyindlela eninzi kwiintsapho ezininzi. Nazi izizathu ezithandathu onokukhetha ukuba uncelise okanye utshintshe umntwana wakho kancane.
Ubuyela EzeMsebenzini
Ukuba ufuna ukubuyela emsebenzini kodwa ufuna ukuqhubeka uncelise, unako. Unokukhetha ukupompa xa usebenza kwaye uncelise xa usendlini nakwiimpelaveki. Okanye, unokondla xa uhlala ekhaya kwaye unikeze umntwana wakho umthombo ohlukile wesondlo esifanelekileyo seminyaka xa ungekho umntwana wakho.
Umntwana Wakho Uguga
Ukuqhawula ngokukhethekileyo kuza ngokuqhelekileyo kubantwana abadala. Njengomntwana omdala aqala ukongeza ukutya okuninzi kunye nokutya kwabo kwansuku zonke, badinga akudingeki bancelise. Ngoku, oko akuthethi ukuba ukunyamezela akusayi kunceda. Ukuncelisa ukubeleka kuyaqhubeka nokubonelela umntwana wakho ngeenzuzo ezininzi zezempilo kunye nophuhliso xa unqumle ukunyanga.
Enyanisweni, ixesha elide ulibele, lilungele umntwana wakho. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukucoca ngokukodwa kukukhetha okumangalisayo kumntwana wakho okhulayo .
Uvakalelwa kukuba unqabile
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unxiliso lukhulu kuwe kwaye ucinga ukuba ufuna ukutsala umntwana wakho , unokufuna ukuzama ukuncwina kunokuba utyhale.
Xa uqala ukumncelisa uncinci, unokuziva ulawulwa ngakumbi. Ngaphezulu, umntwana wakho uya kuba nako ukufumana iinzuzo zobisi lwakho lwebele .
Ukunikezelwa Kwakho Kwebisi Kuphantsi
Ukunikezelwa kwebisi oluphantsi kwesibindi kudla ngokuba ngumphumo we- latch ehlwempuzekileyo okanye ukungabi nanyelwa rhoqo . Ukuba unomdla malunga nobisi lobisi obusenzayo, kufuneka uxoxe nodokotela wengane yakho, umcebisi wezabelo, okanye iqela lokuncedisa ukunyusa ukuncedisa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unobisi oluncinci lobisi lwebele olusisiseko ngenxa yeemeko ezithile zesifuba, ukuhlinzwa kwangaphambili kwebele , ukubuya kwexesha lakho , uxinzelelo, ukutshaya , i-hypothyroidism, okanye ezinye iingxaki zempilo, unokufuneka unike umntwana wakho isongezelelo . Kodwa, imfuno yokuncedisa ayithethi ukuba utyane umntwana wakho. Unako ukuqhubeka ukondla kunye kunye nokuxhaswa xa uthanda.
Awukulungele Ukunikezela Ukubeleka
Unokugqiba ukunqanda umntanakho ngenxa yokunyanzeliswa kwintsapho, abahlobo okanye iqabane lakho. Emva koko, njengoko uqala ukululela, unokuqonda ukuba ukugxala ngokupheleleyo akusikho wena okanye umntwana wakho ofuna ngokwenene. Kule ngongoma, unokukhetha ukuqhubeka nokuncelisa kuqala into yokuqala nangomhla xa ubeka umntwana wakho embhedeni.
Ngaloo ndlela, unako ukugcina ubuhlobo bakho bokuncelisa kunye nomntwana wakho, kodwa ekubeni umntwana wakho engabalisi emini, awunakuziva uxinzelelo lwabanye.
Umntwana Wakho Akayilungele ku-Wean
Unokufumanisa ukuba xa usulungele ukuthambisa, umntwana wakho akakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkinga enzima yokuyeka isifuba, ukuluma okuncinane kungabangela impendulo. Ukuxiliswa akusiyo kuphela umthombo wesondlo , kodwa kunika nokuthuthuzela nokukhuseleko. Wonke umntwana uhlukile, kwaye ngelixa abanye baya kunika ukunyamezela ngokulula, abanye basaludinga ukufudumala kunye nokusondelana nokuncelisa.
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