Kutheni abantwana besetyenziselwa ukuhlambalaza nge-intanethi ukuhlaselwa amaxhoba okwesibini
Yonke imizuzwana 98, umntu wase-United States uhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Kwaye kaninzi kunokuba kunjalo, elo lixhoba liyintombazana eselula. Enyanisweni, amabhinqa aphakathi kweminyaka eyi-16 no-19 aphindaphinda amaxesha amane ukuba abe ngamaxhoba okuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunabani na abanye kubemi.
Ukwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu, kukho intsebenzo ekhulayo phakathi kwabaselula ababethobisayo iintombi ze-intanethi emva kokuba behlaselwe, ngamanye amaxesha basebenzisa imifanekiso yevidiyo yokuhlaselwa kunye nokubiza amagama kunye nokuxhaphazwa ngamagama .
Kwimantombazana amaninzi, ukuhlazeka kwe-intanethi kunye nokuhlazeka kwabantu kufana nokuhlaselwa okwesibini. Uninzi lwamantombazana lichaza ukuba ngokwenene lubuhlungu kakhulu ukujongana nokuhlaselwa kokuqala. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, abanye abasetyhini bathatha ubomi babo ngenxa yoko.
Iziganeko ezibini ezibalaseleyo ezibandakanya ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunye nokuhlaziywa kwe-intanethi kubandakanya isiCalifornia, i-Audrie Potts kunye ne-Canadian, Rehtaeh Parsons. Kuzo zombini iimeko, amantombazana amancinci aye kwiqela, ayeninzi kakhulu ukusela, kwaye wadlwengulwa ngelixa bengayithobeli. Iifoto zokuhlaselwa zifakwe kwi-intanethi ngokukhawuleza kunye namazwana achaphazelayo kunye nama-innuendos. Kwakhona bafumana imiyalezo ebhaliweyo kunye neimemo zokulala ngesondo xa behlala kunye kunye nabahlobo babo noontanga. Ukuthotywa kunye nentlungu ababeziva ngayo emva kokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kwaqiniswa ngokuhlazola nokugxeka okwenzekayo. Ekugqibeleni, amabini amantombazana ayengasakwazi ukuthatha intlungu kwaye azibulale .
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Bambalwa kakhulu, ukuba kukho, oontanga baya kumela ulutsha olutsha lokuhlaselwa ngokwesini. Esikhundleni saloo nto, bahlala bexhatshaza abantu kunye nexhoba . Nangona kukho iinkalo ezininzi ezidlala kule ndlela yokuziphatha kuquka uxinzelelo lwabaontanga , iifowuni , kunye nomnqweno omkhulu wokuba ungene, ukuhlazeka okuqhubekayo kubangele abantu abadala.
Kodwa abanye abaphandi babonisa ukuba ingcinezelo yolu xhoba-ukugxeka kukuba ababukeli kunye namangqina abafuni ukuziva bengabikho kolawulo. Yaye ukuqaphela ukuba nabani na onokuba lixhoba kuthetha ukuba akukho konke okusemandleni abo. Ngenxa yoko, kudla kulula ukugxeka ixhoba kunokubona ukuba ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunokuthi kwenzeke kunoma ubani. Kulula ukubuza ukuba wenzeni ukukwenza okanye ukucinga ukuba uzithethile kuye kunokuba aqaphele ukuba enye okanye ngaphezulu yabafundi kunye nabo bangaphula omnye umntu ngendlela enjalo.
Ngaphezu koko, abaninzi abantu bakufumanisa ukuba kulula ukuvelana nabafana abenza ukuhlaselwa kunye nokuzama ukuwakhusela kwisigwebo kunokuba ufumane ubulungisa kumantombazana. Kunokuba abantu bathethe ngokuchasene nokuhlaselwa, bayazibuza bona "yenzeni ukwenza ukuba?" Okanye "wayenokungazi kakuhle kunokusela kakhulu."
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekusebenziseni ukuhlazisa i-intanethi yinkalipho, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ungaziwayo, ukuba abantu abaselula baziva xa bekhompyutheni yekhompyutha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kulula ukuthetha izinto ezinzima ukusuka kwintuthuzelo yekhaya labo kunokuba zithetha ezo zinto zikarhulumente. Kodwa yintoni abantwana abahlala belibale kukuba ukubeka izimvo kwiimidiya zentlalo yinto eyenziwa ngabantu.
Kufana nokumemeza iingcamango zabo phakathi kwendawo yedolophu. Abantu abaninzi bafunda oko babhalayo kwaye bachaphazelekayo, okufana nokuba bayakukhwaza.
Isihluthulelo sokuthintela olu hlobo lokuhlaselwa kwe-intanethi ngabafundi kukubafakela impembelelo kwixhoba . Kwakhona kunceda ukuba bayakwazi ukubona umonakalo owamagama abo, amajelo kunye namazwana abo ahlaselayo. Ukubenza baqonde ukuba ixhoba elichaphazelekayo libuhlungu kakhulu lihamba ixesha elide ekuncedeni ukuthintela ukuhlambalaza kwi-intanethi.
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Xa umntu ehlaselwa ngokwesondo, akuqhelekanga ukuba azigwebe ngokwabo oko kwenzeka.
Bazigxeka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ngenxa yokuba bengakwazi ukuyeka ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo okanye ukuba bangenzi into eyahlukileyo. Kuqhelekile ukuba amaxhoba okuhlaselwa aziva ahlazeke kakhulu ngenxa yento eyenzekayo kubo.
Ukuphulukisa kulolu hlobo lwamava obuhlungu, into efunekayo ukuba bayivele ebantwini kukuba abazange bafanelwe ukuhlaselwa, ukuba abazange bayibangele, kwaye bangabonanga. Kodwa oku akukwenzekayo xa behlazekile nge-intanethi ngenxa yeengxaki eziye zanyamezela. Esikhundleni saloo nto, bangamaxhoba okubiza igama, ukuhlambalaza i-slut , kunye ne-cyberbullying, yonke into eqinisa intloni abavakalelwa ngayo.
Ngaphezu koko, ukuhlaziswa kobuhlanga kunokuba nempembelelo ekuphumeni kwabo. Enyanisweni, uphando lubonisa ukuba xa amantombazana amancinci atyholwa ngenxa yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, baxela uxinzelelo olukhulu, ukuxinezeleka, kunye nezinye iingcinga ngokuzibulala. Ukutshutshiswa-kwesohlwayo kungaphinda kubandezeleke uxinzelelo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengxaki yokuhamba kwengxaki . Zonke ezi zinto zimi endleleni yokubuyisela.
Amaxhoba angase aphelelwe yithemba, yedwa kwaye ayodwa, ngakumbi xa abahlobo babo bebonakala bephela kwaye akukho namnye omelayo. Ekugqibeleni, oku kuthungelwa kwiindawo ezibizwa ngokuba ngabahlobo kunye nehlazo kunye nexhoba-ukugxeka kudala isiko lokudlwengulwa.
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Inkcubeko yokudlwengula eUnited States ixhaswa yinkolelo yokuba ixhoba limele libeke ityala lokuhlaselwa kwakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, abantu bakuthola kulula ukucinga ukuba ixhoba lifanelwe ukuhlaselwa ngendlela ethile. Ngokomzekelo, abantu banokumgxeka ngendlela ayigqoke ngayo kwaye uthi uyayibuza. Okanye, banokucinga ukuba ufanelwe udlwengulo ngenxa yokuba wayezibeka kwindawo eyingozi okanye wayeninzi ukusela. Ukuhlambalaza i-slut kugalelo kwinto yokuba amanye amantombazana afanelwe inhlonipho encinane kunezinye kwaye afanelwe ukudlwengulwa.
Xa abantu bebandakanyeka kwiintshutshiso-ukugxeka iinkolelo ezinjengalezi, baxelela abafazi ukuba bayabangelwa yintlungu nentlungu abaye bahlangabezana nayo. Okwangoku, ezi nkolelo azenzi nto ukumbamba umdlwenguli. Endaweni yoko, abantu bavelana nomdlwenguli ngokulila ngenxa yokuba "ubomi babo bonakaliswe." Imizekelo emibini evelele yale ndlela yokucinga iquka ityala lokudlwengula laseStubenville kunye nomdlali waseStanford owadlwengula umfazi ongenalwazi.
Xa isiko lokudlwengulwa sisenziwa ngoluhlobo lokucinga, lingabakhokelela ekuhlaseleni ngabantu abahlaselwa. Oku kuyingozi ngenxa yokuba ithoxisa ixhoba malunga nokudlwengulwa, kwaye abadlwenguli ke bangena enkingeni. Enyanisweni, kuphela isigamu sokudlwengulwa sichazwa, kwaye iipesenti ezi-3 kuphela zabadlwenguli zichitha ubuncinane ngosuku olunye entolongweni. Umjikelezo onobuqili uya kuqhubeka njengoko nje abantu beqhubeka bekholelwa ukuba amantombazana adlwengulwa ngenxa yezinto abazenzayo.
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Ngenxa yexhoba langoku, kunye namaxhoba angabakho, kubalulekile ukuba ucelomngeni inkqubo yenkolelo yokuba amanye amaxhoba ayenokuthi abe netyala lokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Ukwenza njalo, ootitshala, abazali, kunye neenkokheli zentlalo kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo okuthintela iziganeko zokuhlaselwa ngokwesini kunye nokuhlazeka kwe-intanethi. Nazi ezinye iindlela ezenziwa ngayo le nto.
- Chaza zonke iintlobo zokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini . Amaxesha amaninzi, xa intombazana encinci ihlaselwa ngokwesondo, isaphephelo sichaza ukuba akazange athi akukho okanye ukuba izenzo zaye zavunywa. Okanye, banokuba bathi le ntombazana ayengazi ukuba oko wayenzayo kwakungalunganga. Abazali, ootitshala, abaphathi beekholeji kunye neenkokheli zentlalo kufuneka bafundise abafundi kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ngokwesini kuquka konke ukuthunyelwa nge- sexting kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini ngokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo nokudlwengulwa. Abaselula bancinane kwaye banesidumbu kwaye kufuneka baqonde ukuba ukubandakanya kwezi ntlobo zendlela yokuziphatha kulwa nomthetho. Akufuneki kubekho umbuzo ukuba oko benzayo akulungile.
- Ukuseka iinkqubo eziqinileyo . Ukongezelela kwimithetho echasene nokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, izikolo eziphakamileyo kunye neekholeji zifuna ukubeka imigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo ephathelele ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini kuquka nokuxoshwa esikolweni. Kwakhona kufuneka babe nemigaqo-nkqubo ngokuphathelele ukwabelana ngevidiyo, ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying , kunye nokuhlazisa abanye abafundi. Nxibelelana nale nkqubo ngokusebenzisa amaqela abafundi, iindibano zezikolo, iindaba, iindaba zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinye iindlela zokufumana igama. Akufanele kubekho nayiphi na into engathandabuzekiyo ekuya kuhlwaywa ngesondo ngokokuhlaselwa ngumfundi kwaye emva kokuzihlambalaza. Ngamanye amahlebezi kunye neentlebo zingabhekiswa kumgaqo-nkqubo.
- Idilesi nganye kwisikhalazo ngasinye . Ukuba isikolo esiphakamileyo okanye iikholeji sifumana isikhalazo esibandakanya ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, kufuneka babe nemigaqo-nkqubo ekhoyo ukujongana nezikhalazo ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona akufanele bahlaziye ekubambiseni abenzi bokugwenxa ngoxhatshazo ngokwesondo. Ukwenjenjalo akugcini nje ukuseka indawo yokufunda ekhuselekileyo kubafundi, kodwa kwakhona kudala umoya apho amaxhoba eziva ekhuselekileyo ekubikweni kokuhlaselwa. Okwangoku, isikolo sigqibezela uxanduva lwayo lokuziphatha nokuziphatha ukubonelela indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuba abafundi bafunde.
- Yitsho into. Mhlawumbi indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphelisa ukuhlazola kwi-intanethi nokudlwengulwa kukuba kukubiza abo bazama ukuhlazisa baze bahlazise intombazana enesibindi esilungeleyo ukuba ifike kwaye ivakalise ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ubona ukuhlazisa i-intanethi, tshela into malunga nayo. Kananjalo, nikeza inkxaso kubabo abanesibindi ngokwaneleyo ukutyhila inyaniso. Njengomsindisi ohlaselwe ngokwesondo ngo-Daisy Coleman uthi kwi-documentary, u- Audrie noDaisy : "Amazwi ezentshaba zethu asona njengento engathandekiyo njengento yokuthula yabangane bethu."