Igama elithi "ukuncedisa umzali" ngokuqhelekileyo lizisa iingcinga ezifana nokugqoka umntwana wakho kwisiringi okanye ukulala kunye nokunakekelwa ngemfuno. Kodwa ukuhlala usondele kwaye uqhagamshelwe kumntwana akuyinto emele ihambe njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, ukuya kwiminyaka yokufundela nokufunda esikolweni kwiminyaka engaphezulu nangaphezulu. (Enyanisweni, ukuba ufuna ukuba nolwalamano oluqinileyo nomntwana wakho xa ehlawula ubunzima obunokutshatyalaliswa kweminyaka, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ugcine unxibelelwano oluqinileyo kwaye usebenzise iindlela zokunxibelelana ngoku, ngelixa umntwana wakho esikolweni esikolweni. kunokwenzeka ukuba uzimisele ukuthetha nawe malunga noko kwenzekayo ebomini bakhe.) Nazi ezinye iindlela ezifanelekileyo onokuzenza uququzelelo lomzali kunye nabantwana abadala.
Yazi Abahlobo Bakho Bantwana Nabantu Abasondeleyo
Ukuba umntwana wakho wamenyelwe kwisidlo kwindlu yomhlobo, qi niqiniseke ukuba ubuze abazali bomngane wakho imibuzo ebalulekileyo ebalulekileyo njengokungathi bayagcina izibhamu endlwini kwaye ngubani oya kubakho ukulawula abantwana. Yazi ukuba ngubani na ohlobo lwabantwana bakho kunye nabani abahlala naye esikolweni, kwaye uyayikhupha ukuba ingaba ngumhlobo omhle , oncedisayo, onovelwano , onomusa , okanye umhlobo onobuthi ongeyithandi kwaye ngubani mpe mbelelo embi kumntwana wakho.
Yenza Ubunxibelelwano Bemihla ngemihla
Misela amaxesha aqhelekileyo ukuba uthethe nomntwana wakho ngomnye, nokuba uya kulala , ngexesha lokudla, ekuhambeni kweemoto ukuya esikolweni. Beka eceleni iziphazamiso, njengefowuni; Qaphela ukuba "ukuphuza," okanye ukufowunelwa kweefowuni kuye kwachaphazela kakubi ubudlelwane bethu boluntu kwaye zama ukugxila kumntwana wakho xa uthetha naye endaweni yokuphazamiseka nokujonga i-imeyili okanye imiyalezo.
Yidla ngokutya kunye nomntwana wakho rhoqo
Izifundo zibonise ukuba ukutya kunye kunye neentsana kunye kunye nezingane kubandakanya izibonelelo ezininzi kubantwana, kubandakanywa amabakala angcono, ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokukhuluphala, kunye neengqondo ezingcono, ezentlalontle kunye nezakhono zengqondo. Nangona ungeke ukwazi ukwenza ubusuku bunye bokutya kwentsapho yasebusuku ekhaya, unokufumana izicwangciso zokudala ukuxhuma kunye nezingane zakho ngexesha lokudla, njengokuthetha ngexesha lokucoca ngaphambi nangemva komsebenzi wesikolo okanye ukubeka eceleni ixesha elincinane. kusasa ngenxa yesidlo sasekuseni esilungileyo nesempilweni .
Ziyolise Ngomntwana Wakho
Uphando lubonisa ukuba xa abazali bedlala nabantwana babo kwaye bahlekisa nabo, abantwana abakwazi ukuphucula uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba kwaye banokuba ngabantu abanomfesane novelwano.
Yiba Nomnye Umntwana Wakho Unako Ukuthetha Ngokulula
Xa ubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba uphulaphule ngokwenene kwaye ufuna ukuva oko akuthethileyo, kwaye wabelana ngezinto ezithile zobuqu uze uvulele umntwana wakho, ubeka isiseko esihle apho umntwana wakho uya kuziva ekhululekile ukuthetha kuwe ngezinto. Oku kuvuleka kunye noqhagamshelwano kuya kuba luncedo njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye unokufuna ukuba uthethe ngolunye usuku malunga nento enzima ebomini bakhe.
Ukulungiswa Ngothando
Uqeqesho kufuneka lube lukhulu malunga nokufundisa kunokugweba, ukukhawula okanye ukubetha abantwana. Abazali abaqinileyo kodwa abanothando xa belungisa ukuziphatha kakubi kwezingane zabo bavumela abantwana babo bazive bekhuselekile ngeendlela ezimbini ezibalulekileyo: ngokubazisa ukuba kukho imida kunye nemithetho abayifunayo ukuba bayithobele impilo yabo, ukhuseleko, , kwaye ngokuziqinisekisa ukuba nangona ulindele ukuba ziphathe kakuhle kwaye zenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, uthando lwakho kubo luqinile kwaye luqinile.
Fumana iindlela Zokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda" Nsuku Zonke
Into elula nje ngokuba kuthatha umzuzu ukumbamba xa uthe ukuhlawula kusasa okanye ubumnandi ekupheleni kosuku ngenye yezindlela ezininzi ongabonisa ngayo umntwana wakho ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani usuku olulodwa kwaye luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuncedisa bazali.