Iyiphi indlela efanelekileyo yokuqonda abantwana abanesiphiwo? Unokwazi ukubheka uluhlu lweempawu eziphathekayo kunye neempawu , kwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi impawu umntwana wakho anayo. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba akukho ndlela esheshayo nelula. Unokujonga kwakhona inkcazo epheleleyo ngakumbi yeziganeko eziqhelekileyo zabantwana abanesiphiwo . Inokukunceda, kwakhona, ukufunda iinkcazelo ezahlukeneyo zobungakanani .
Kodwa enye indlela yokuqonda abantwana abanesakhono kukuqala ukwazi into malunga neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuchule onokuzibona kubantwana. Emva koko unokufuna ukujonga iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo zobuntu abaninzi abanabantwana abanesiphiwo, iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba abantwana abaninzi abanesipho, kunye neemeko eziphuhlisayo kunye nemvakalelo abava ngayo. Xa uqala ukubheka yonke into, ungaqala ukuqonda ukufaneleka.
Ukuphosa
Kunzima kunene ukufumana isibambiso kwisiphi isipho. Akukho mntu uphumele ngencazelo epheleleyo. Ndihlala nditsho ukuba abantwana abanesipho banemibongo - uyayazi xa ubona enye, ecinga ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni inkondlo - okanye umntwana onobuchule. Ubupho buye kwahlulwa ngokwahlukileyo ngamaqela amathathu: imathematika, ngomlomo, okanye kwihlabathi jikelele. Yintoni enye efana nayo? Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abaqondi kakuhle isipho kwaye bakholelwa ukuba abantwana abanesipho nje "bafana" nabantwana .
Ngelixa ezinye izingane ezinesiphiwo ezinokuzikhethela "zihlala zixhomekeke," akukho konke ukunika isipho!
Ubuntu
Uninzi lwabafundi abanesiphiwo sokwabelana ngezinto ezifanayo. Enyanisweni, abantwana abaninzi banokwabelana ngeempawu ezifanayo ezi zixutyushwa ngezinye iinkalo njengenxalenye yesipho. Nangona kulungele ukuthetha oko, akukona ngokupheleleyo.
Akunabantwana bonke abanesipho esinalo, emva koko konke. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi abantwana abanesiphiwo sizethulo, kodwa akubona bonke. Kwaye abaninzi babo banokuphelela (okungenokuba okulungileyo okanye okubi), kodwa kungekhona bonke. Kwaye baninzi babo banamathuba amaninzi - baneetalente ezininzi kunye nekhono - kodwa akubona bonke abakwenzayo. Kodwa kwakhona, ezi mpawu zibonisa ngokuqhelekileyo kwiintsana ezinezipho, ngoko ke ukuba ufuna ukuqonda, ngokubanzi, ukuba yintoni isipho, qwa lasela ezi mpawu zobuntu.
- Extrovert
- Introvert
Iimpazamo
Impawu zobuntu yinto enye; ukuziphatha komnye. Ezinye zeempawu kunye nekhono lezingane ezinomsebenzi zibonakala zikhokelela ekuziphatheni ezithile. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana abakwazi ukuthetha nabo banokuzifundisa ukuba bafunde kwiminyaka emncinane, ngaphambi kokuba baqale isikolo. Abanye basebenzisa izakhono zabo zomlomo kunye namandla okuqiqa ukuba baphikisane ngezinto ezintle phantsi kwelanga - bafana namagqwetha amancinci. Ezinye iibhokhwe ezineziphiwo ziphezulu kunye nokucebisa ootitshala. Eminye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ahluke. Bawa lixhoba lokunciphisa okanye bangazama umngeni wonke utitshala athethayo okanye akwenzayo. Kodwa kwakhona, ukuqonda ezi ziphatha kunokukunceda uqonde abantwana abanezakhono.
Imiba yoPhuhliso kunye nemizwelo
Iibhokhwe ezinamafu zinamava okuphuhliswayo kunye nemvakalelo abanye abantwana abangaboni.
Njengantoni? Uphuhliso olungaphelelanga lunye. Yaye olo phuhliso lunokuzisa ezinye iingxaki. Ukuxinezeleka kwangoku kunokuncinciza abantwana abanesiphiwo - mhlawumbi kwiminyaka emncinci. Olu xinzelelo alufani nokudandatheka oluyimpendulo kwisiganeko sangaphandle, njengokufa kwesilwanyana. Kwaye kubini into ekhethekileyo yinto enabantwana abanesiphiwo esinokufumana. Ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba iquka izipho! Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali banokukhathazeka ukuba umntwana wabo osiswini usuke ehlaselwa yi-hyperlexia. Kodwa intshisekelo enkulu ebantwini abanesiphiwo esinabantwana abanakho kwiileta namagama akufani ne-hyperlexia. Kuhle ukumahluko.
- Uphuhliso oluManyeneyo
- I-Asynchronous Development Syndrome
- Uxinzelelo olukhoyo