Yonke Into Okufuneka Uyazi Ngomntu Wosondo Ngo-Conception
Ukwenza umntwana akuyinto enzima ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho ninobubele obuhle. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukulala ngesondo xa ukhula kakhulu . Oku kufana nomjikelezo wee-middle, kwaye ngeveki ezimbini ukuya kweyesithathu kwimijikelezo yakho yokuya esikhathini kwalabo abane-ovulation rhoqo. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufumana eli xesha .
Nangona kunjalo, mhlawumbi unemibuzo engaphaya kwexesha. Ngaba kukho ukumahluko phakathi kwesondo ngokulala kunye nokuqamba ngesondo? Ingaba imeko? Kuthekani ngokulala emva koko okanye indima ye-female orgasm ekuzaleni? Kufuneka ulala ngesantoni na?
Ixesha Elililungele Lixesha Lokulala Ngesini?
Isikhathi sibalulekile xa uzama ukukhulelwa. Abaninzi bethu banesicatshulwa esikolweni ukuba isini na isiphi na ixesha sinokukhulelwa. Oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo.
Uvumelekile ukuba ukhulelwe ngokwesondo owenzeka kwiintsuku ezintathu nje ngenyanga. Ngakumbi, unako ukuvelisa iintsuku ezisixhenxe ngenyanga.
Ukuba ufumana izibonakaliso ze-ovulation , eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokulala ngesondo ukuze ukhulelwe. Uyakwazi ukubona ukuvuthwa ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezininzi, kubandakanywa izikiti zokuqhelisa i-ovulation , i- basal yokushisa komzimba , okanye ulandelelwano lwe-mucus .
Kuthekani ukuba awunayo nayiphi na imiqondiso ye-ovulation? Akunakuba yi-ovulating. Esi sinokubangela ukuba abantwana bangabikho .
Ngamaxesha amaninzi kufuneka ube neNtsana yokwenza ubulili?
Omnye umbuzo oqhelekileyo ngowona ndlela ufanele ulale ngesondo ukuze ukhulelwe . Ezinye izibini ziphuma ngaphandle kwaye zithatha ngesondo yonke imihla, yonke inyanga. Ukuba ukhona kuloo nto, ngokuqhelekileyo kulungile. Enyanisweni, ngokuqhelekileyo kuluvo oluhle lolwalamano lwakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulala ngesondo xa ungenayo i-ovulating, ukuze isondo singabi ngumshini wokukhulelwa.
Kodwa abaninzi abantu bakhathala kule shedyuli, ingakumbi ukuba kuthatha ixesha elingaphezu kweenyanga ezimbalwa ukukhulelwa. Ngaphezu koko, isondo ngalunye suku luba yingxaki ukuba isibalo sakho sembewu sisezantsi.
Ukulala ngesithathu ukuya kwesine ngeveki yonke inyanga ende isicwangciso esihle. Ngelixa ungeke ukhulelwe kwisini emva kokuvuthwa , kunokukho nezinye iinjongo zesini ngexesha le-non-fertile.
Ngaba Ubume Bokuziphatha Ngezesondo Xa Uzama Ukukhulelwa?
Isikhundla asinakubaluleka kwinto yokwenza umntwana ngesondo. Ngethuba nje u-ejaculation kwenzeka ngokusondeleyo kwintsholongwane, kulungile.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye ingxoxo malunga nokuba ngaba isithunywa sevangeli (umntu ongasentla) sinokuba ngcono .
Inyaniso, unokwenza ngesondo nasiphi na isikhundla. Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zinokunceda ukuphucula ubomi bakho bobulili, kwaye oko kunokukunceda usebenze bhetele ngongxaki yokuzama ukukhulelwa.
Ngaba Ukulala Ngemva Kokunceda Ngesondo?
Ezinye izibini zibuza ukuba ukulala emva kwesondo kunokunceda ukhulelwe , ucinge ukuba xa uhlala unqamle okwesikhashana, i-sperm iya kuba nethuba elingcono lokufika kwindawo eya kuyo.
Kuthatha isidoda phakathi kwemizuzu emi-2 ukuya kwe-10 ukuhamba ukusuka emlonyeni wesibeleko ukuya kwiibhulo zokulala (apho ziza kudibana neqanda.) Nangona kunjalo, le ntshukumo iyenzeka kungakhathaliseki ukuba umile, ulele okanye u eme intloko.
Akukho mntu uqinisekileyo ukuba ulala emva kokubelana ngesondo kunceda, nangona kunjalo, kukho uphando malunga ne- IUI (intrauterine insemination) unyango olubonisa ukuba luncedo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuzama, hlala emhlane wakho emva kwemizuzu eyi-15 emva kwesondo. Lelo lixesha elingaphezulu.
Ngaba i-Orgasm Orgmm ebalulekileyo kwiNtsana yokwenza ubulili?
I-female orgasm ayimfuneko yokuba umntwana enze, kwaye ininzi yabasetyhini ikhulelwe ngaphandle kwayo. Kodwa ngaba unokunceda?
Uphando alucaci, kodwa ezinye iingcaphephe zibonisa ukuba ziyakwazi ukunika isisu.
Enye inkolelo kukuba i- orgasm yowesibini inceda ukuhambisa isisu kwi-cervix ukuya kwii-tublopian tubes. Enye into yokuba i-orgasm yenza uzive ulele, okwandisa iingxaki zakho zokuhlala ezitshatyalaliswa emva kokulala ngokwesini (ezinokuthi okanye akunakunceda ukuba ukhulelwe-jonga ulwazi olungentla apha!)
Ngaba iiLubricants Like KY Jelly Safe for Sex Conception?
Iiblue lubrantshini kunye ne-spermicide zibonakaliswa cha-hayi xa kuziwa ngesondo sokukhulelwa. Kuthiwani malunga neentsimbi eziqhelekileyo? Ngelishwa, ii- lubricants ezifana ne-KY Jelly ayinobungqina bentlobo .
Lo mbandela obaluleke kakhulu, kuba isibini esithintela ukungabikho kwengqondo singabakho uxinzelelo ngexesha lesini, oku kuthetha ukuba amanzi amancinci ambalwa. (Ngaphezu koko, ukungalingani kwe-hormonal kungakhokelela kumbindi ongaphantsi wesibeleko .)
Iindaba ezilungileyo zikhona iibluegrants ezinobuncwane ezifumanekayo. Ezinye zeemveliso ezidumileyo ziquka iMbewu yokuqala, iConcer Plus, kunye ne-Astroglide TTC. Ungasebenzisa ngokucacileyo (akukho phunga) ioli yomntwana.
Ndinokujamelana Njani Ne-Sexual Demand Ngethuba Lonyango?
Njengengxenye yonyango lokuzala, unokuxelelwa xa ulala (" ugqirha ogxininiswe ngesondo .") Ukuba uthatha iComidid, ugqirha wakho uya kukunceda ukhethe iintsuku ezilungileyo zokukhuthaza ukukhulelwa.
Ugqirha wakho unokukuxelela ukuba usebenzise itikiti yokucwangcisa i- ovulation ekhaya. Ngaphandle koko, unokukufumana iintsuku zakho ezivumileyo ngokusebenzisa i-ultrasound kunye negazi ukuze uqikelele ukuvutha.
Oku kunokuba nzima kakhulu kubini . Amanye amadoda anokufumana uxhalaba lokusebenza. Ukujongana, cinga ukwenza usuku 'lwesini ehleliweyo,' uhlale uhlaziye ngayo imeko, kwaye ube nesineke omnye nomnye.
Ndingayithuthukisa njani Ubomi Bakho Bokuziphatha Ngezesondo Ngoku Siyi-TTC (Ukuzama Ukukhulelwa)?
Ukuzama ukukhulelwa kunokutshintsha ubomi bakho bobulili , ngokuqhelekileyo kube nzima ngakumbi xa uzama iintsuku eziliqela (okanye iminyaka). Unokuziva uwedwa kwaye udidekile.
Kufuneka uyazi ukuba unenkathazo ngesondo xa uzama ukukhulelwa. Kukho izinto onokuzenza , nangona uphucula impilo yakho yesondo.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Ubundlobongela Bubuhlungu?
Phakathi kwama-30 ukuya kuma-50 ekhulwini kwabasetyhini baya kuba nobulili obubuhlungu ngexesha elithile ebomini babo. Ukwabelana ngesondo akufanele kube buhlungu. Ukuba buhlungu, into ephosakeleyo.
Okumangalisa kukuba, ngowona-1 kwabasetyhini kuphela baya kumxelela ugqirha ngeentlungu zabo.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa ufuna ukukhulelwa kodwa ubulili bubuhlungu? Yintoni ebangela intlungu yesini? Ngaba kunokulimaza ukuzala kwakho? Ufanele uthethe ugqirha wakho malunga nazo zonke ezi nkxalabo. Ubulili obubuhlungu abuphazamisi nje ulwalamano lwakho kunye nokukwazi ukukhulelwa kodwa lunokuba ngumqondiso weengxaki ezinzulu.
Ukuba ubulili bubuhlungu kangangokuba ukulala ngesondo akunakwenzeka, kukho ezinye iindlela zokukhetha ukukhulelwa . Kodwa okokuqala, uthetha ugqirha wakho kwaye ube novavanyo olunzulu. Ubunzima ngokuqhelekileyo indlela yethu yomzimba yokusixelela ukuba into ayilungile. Mamela oko kuthetha.
Ngaphantsi kwindlela yokwenza abantwana ngesondo
Ukuba wenza isondo ukwenza umntwana, inyathelo elibalulekileyo lixesha. Asiqinisekanga ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba isimo sokwabelana ngesondo senza umehluko, ukuba i-orgasm yowesibini yenza umehluko, okanye ukuba kunceda ukulala emva koko. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokujonga iintsuku zakho ezivumileyo kwaye ujonge abo.
Ukuba awukhulelwa kwaye uqala ukuxhalaba, xela ugqirha wakho. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba isondo ngaphandle kwenjongo yokwenza umntwana kubalulekile!
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