Abazali Ababelethi Namaqela amaninzi: Ukususela kwiintsana ukuya kwiintshumi
Ukukhulisa amawele, ama-triple okanye ngaphezulu kukuba namava ahlukeneyo ekukhuliseni abantwana abangabantwana abangafaniyo. Abazali bamawele kunye nabaphindaphindiweyo baya kufumana uncedo kunye neengcebiso kuzo zonke izigaba zokuba ngumzali, ukusuka kwiintsana ukuya kwiintsholongwane, eziya kubantwana.
Ukusinda Ngonyaka Wokuqala
Ukujamelana neentsana ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu kunenxalenye yezigaba ezinzima kakhulu zokuphindaphinda umzali.
Ukunyamekela usana kuyinzame yokujikeleza, kwaye xa kukho ezimbini iintsana, iimfuno ziphindwe kabini. Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo kufuna umzamo onjalo; zombini iintsana kufuneka zidle, kwaye akukho nto yokujika! Unyaka wokuqala udla ixesha lokuxhatshazwa nokuxhalaba kubazali beeninzi, ngokulala ebuncinci kunye neentluphe ezingcolileyo ekuboneleleni ngokubanzi! Kodwa zikhona ezinye izixhobo eziza kukunceda ukuba udlule - kwaye wenze okungakumbi-unyaka wokuqala ngamawele.
Okokuqala, lungele ulungele ukufumana iziphindaphindi ngokugcina izinto eziyimfuneko oza kuyidinga kunyaka wokuqala. Nceda uncedo lwamasewele akho azalwayo kwaye qinisekisa ukuba ulungiselele ugqirha wezingane ukuze ufumane unyango olungcono lwezonyango xa uludinga. Khangela olu uluhlu lwezinto omele uyenze phambi kokuba amawele akho azalwe ukuze wena kunye nekhaya lakho ulungele ukuwamkela ekhaya esibhedlele .
Njengoko ungena kwisiqhelo , unokuzibuza ukuba ungondla njani iintsana ezimbini ngexesha elinye . Kuza kuba nokuningi kokukhala, i-diapers ukutshintsha, kunye neengubo ezimnandi, kodwa into enye ayiyi kubakho ukulala . Ungakhathazeki, kuya kuba lula . Zama ezi zilishumi iingcebiso zokulawula ukuphindaphindwa okanye ezi zixhobo zokuhlala ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala .
Amabhinqa ahamba kunye namaqela amaninzi
Emva konyaka wokuqala, izinto ziyanelisa! Amawele amancinane kunye nokuphindaphinda ahamba-apheleleyo amandla, ahlola ihlabathi kunye nokufunda ukuthetha . Kubalulekile ukuba wenze ikhaya lakho libe yindawo ephephile kumawele amancinci. Baya kuchitha ixesha elininzi kwiidlala kwaye kungekudala ininzi yamathoyizi iya kuthatha indlu yakho. Unokuhlangabezana nemingeni emitsha, njengamawele awaluma okanye asebenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo , kodwa unokuphinde ujonge phambili ekufumaneni ukulala okungakumbi kwaye uthi ukulahlwa kwee-diapers ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi . Ngenye yezona zinto zinomdla kakhulu kwaye zinzima - kubazali, kodwa abaninzi abazali abaphindaphindiweyo bafumanisa ukuba kunonwabo xa kuninzi ngaphezulu.
Ezininzi kwiSikolo
Iminyaka yesikolo inokuzisa izinto ezinomdla kubazali. Uya kufuneka wenze izigqibo ezinzima malunga nokufakwa kwamagumbi akho eeklasini , nokuba ngaba kufanele babe kunye kwiklasi efanayo okanye bahlule kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo . Kwezinye iimeko, unokwenzela ukulwa namalungelo akho ukuqinisekisa ukuba isikolo siya kuhlonipha okukhethwa kukho. Ukutshatyalaliswa kweso sibini kunokuba ngumsindo kakhulu, kodwa amawele angabakho abahle kakhulu . Ngeziphindaphindiweyo, intsapho yakho iya kugxotha imisebenzi eninzi efana nemidlalo , umsebenzi wesikolo , kunye nabahlobo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uya kuzibuza ukuba uchithe ixesha elaneleyo namawele akho , ngokukodwa ngexesha elinye.
Yaye kunye nomhla wokuzalwa oya kudlulayo, amawele akho aya kukhula, ahlale emele, aze ahlakulele ubunikazi bakhe .
Imiba Yentsapho
Ukuba namawele okanye ukuphindaphinda kwintsapho kubangela imingeni enomdla abanye abazali abajongene nayo. Ukhulisa abantwana abaneminyaka elifanayo ngexesha elilodwa, endaweni yokujongana nobudala obuhlukeneyo buntwaneni. Ukususela kwiinkqubo zokulawula ngaphezulu kweyodwa ukuxazulula ukulwa, abazali bafuna iingcebiso ezininzi zenceba. Ukuba nokuphindaphinda kungabangela ubunzima phakathi kobudlelwane phakathi kwabazali, ngoko qaphela ukunyusa umtshato wakho. Inkxaso evela kubazali nomkhulu iyabaluleke kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba kukho abanye abantakwabo kwintsapho.
Ulwalamano lweTwin
Ububambiswano phakathi kwephindaphindiweyo buyinto engaqhelekanga, into ekhethekileyo, kodwa kubazali, ukunyamezela kungaba ngathi unomntwana omnye! Kukho izicwangciso ezininzi kunye nezicwangciso kule ndawo ekuncedeni amawele akho okanye ukuphindaphinda ube nolwalamano oluhle kunye nomnye. Ngokomzekelo, nali ezinye iindlela iintsapho ezijongene nazo ukulwa namawele . Okanye ungadinga uncedo oluchazela abanye indlela yokuxelela amawele akho . Fumana iingcebiso zokuqeqesha amawele xa ukuziphatha kwabo kukhula okanye kusebenze ukudideka xa izinto zingenakulungele kwaye zilingana.
Amacebo Ekhaya
Ngaba amawele asebenza kwiintsapho zakho? Ewe, bahamba bejikeleza indlu! Ukususela ekulawuleni ixesha lokutya ekunciphiseni ukungcola, oomama kunye nabadibanisi badinga uncedo oluninzi lokugcina indlu yabo. Kukho izixhobo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi kunye namawele, ukusuka ekukhanyiseni umthwalo wakho wokuhlamba uze uqiniseke ngekhaya lakho ukugcina wonke umntu ephephile. Ekugqibeleni, uya kufunda indlela 'yokwenza ngayo' ngamawele, kunye neengcebiso zokuthenga ngeamawele kwi-tow .